Ai yêu Ấn Độ & người Ấn nào (Tầng 13 - Nắng lên xua tan mây âm u, trời trong xanh rạng rỡ nụ cười)

@copconmisa
Sorry , Miss for the distraction.

Anyone reaching arrange-marriage? How do i know. I don't know anything about you all.
Actually, I would not say that i'm born in open-minded family. Because till now none of the family member has taken any such steps. But my father has given me so much freedom that i'm thinking my father won't mind if bring bride-groom of different caste.

Caste system in India used to play a important role but it's all now past. Nowadays in school or office there's no such discrimination happened.
But in ancient time caste system was really at its horrifying state. People were not free enough to choose profession of their choice. Down caste people are force to do clean or sweet high castes garbage and even their ****.
To learn more on this topic, you can google "caste system in India" . I'm sure you'll find many more disgusting or interesting stories.

Nowadays I won't deny it doesn't happen. It happen but in some villages only where there is not much literacy spreaded. I've heard a ws that in a school in some viillage near Haryana region , down caste student were made to sit in separate rows far apart from high caste people. In lunch , there were given lunch in old and half broken utensils . So, disgusting...
So, such systems still exist but not much in news.

But you know what, nowadays caste system has taken a new form. When India got independence Dr. B.R Ambedkar made a rule that people who are poor and don't have much facilities they will be given some relaxation in jobs and higher studies for the next 10 years. And only way to do that is to put that rule at mass-level. That's why they identified some tribes and caste and made this rule for them. These caste were given relaxation in govt. jobs and some seats are also reserved for them. Private firms are also forced to recruit people of these caste as well.

Now, after 50 years of freedom still these caste are not lifted well. Still they have poor literacy rate. So, it's still in existence.

So, now in india there exist two kind of people: Reserve category and General category. Reserve category people are those who belongs to one such caste And those who don't are called General Category people. There is hatred between general category and reserve category because general category think it's easier to get admission for reserve category as they bag seat even at low marks and they have to work hard to secure seat. It's true also. If a reserve category candidate fetched 3/10 he'll get seat but if general category people fetched 8, he's still in doubt. He may not get the admission. So, they hate reserve category people and sometime call them Beggar

General category people are normally from high class and generally rich. They can afford tution fees and all. On the backbone of Money and good guidance they obtain good education and thus high level of problem solving capacity. Reserve category people are totally different. ...
Majority of them are from villages and forests...


regards
sonu kumar meena

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Hey, everyone! Why dont we stop such topic and be normal. i think thats not suitable topic to be discussed here, right? And, the private matters shouldnt be showed here. If you wanna discuss more detail about it, pls just send mail to the related person's inbox and discuss or argue together there. Pls return the bare air for this forum, we feel so much disturbed in mind when each time coming to forum and just reading the same topic. Be friendly and open your mind. Life is not just ur topic and we r being wasted so much time for such stupid matter.

Ladies and friends, be happy and share ur feeling, ur thinking, ur acknowledge, ur experiences, even ur mistakes or incidents or anything else, but pls dont talk bad and rubbish about each others.

You know, before, this forum is my second life beside my real life. I was used to be so much happy to come here and share my feeling, my thinking and my love story. I spent my working time for it. But its also not enough, then even i came here when i come back home after working. Each time i got information that there is a new post from members, i again felt happy and curious to open and read it, then smile alone if someone shared their love stories. Even, my darling was also so much jealous and angry with me coz i spent more time for this forum than him.

But now, its not happened like that anymore.

I feel so much boring to come here. If i come, i also dont have feeling to put any comment or post here. Everyone is pushed in one useless topic and step back and forward in that without thinking to leave it. I also dont feel the good affection from someone in this forum. The good members should learn how to build this forum and this topic about India, Indian country, Indian people and Indian culture become better and more useful. Because, as i know, this forum is not just for love, its also for acknowledge and information. I know there r so many students or person, who has real interest in it , come here and search information for their needs. And, if we still keep such kind of topic to be available here alway, then? It really become foolish in their mind. Dont make urself become to be fooled by others. Dont let bad purpose of someone to be successed. I feel so much insult when we become clown in other mind. we r con*****ed by someone without acknowledge. So pls refresh ur mind and come back as urself before, all dears;[r2)].

Few days back, i met an old Indian couple at the airport. I guess they came here as tourist. Their daughter looked so tired and was shouldered by her mum while the old man was checking in. Its so crowded and i was also waiting so much time there. But feeling so much energy when suddenly i got his smile ( that smile as the sunshine, he left for his wife and daughter, but thought thats also for me....[]). All sweet memories returned to me. Each second we spent is so much valued for me. Thats only reason for me to still keep waiting and expecting. But, such kind of memories hurt me so much day by day. The more i think of it again, the more i feel so much angry with him. Then i come and try to fight with him to release my anger[]. Sometime i trouble him, even myself weather i chosed the wrong way or not? Beside those sweet memories, i also got tension from this relationship. Sometime, i question myself that what hell pushed me in such situation, having darling but y alway feel lonely and sad. Coz its so far? Coz of different in point of view? or what? "Be pratical!" is one of suggestion i got from someone, suddenly i think about all of u, my dear ladies! Do we live in untrue life?Y everything become so vague? Suddenly, i feel scared so much. When we r falling in love, everything is roses, even thats fighting, arguing or discussing. I realized that women r really weak ***. Yes, as someone here said " girls love my ear and eyes for boys". Each side also have its own advantages and disadvantages. Even advantages or disadvantage, we also often get pain from it even more or less. I, really feel headache so much while thinking of it. I try to forget everything by hard-working, but just at that moment, after that, everything again resume. its so stupid!

Hixxx,.. what hell im taking here? I again get mad. ~X..i miss....
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Gee: Where r u now. I miss u. I was used to feel ur encouragement before, but now, even u also disappeared from my sight. Feeling more lonely.
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Jenny: Is there any news? see, Ms.Vien's baby. He looks so nice. Dont u be hurry up to get such happiness?Its also hardly to image the life as u latter..hixxx.y today i again become so sensitive? I hate such stupid feeling when it comes to me sometime...
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Vit Xiem: Hey, my little darling, u know ur smile give me more power? Smile as much as u can. Dont u wanna share Indian gifts to us? ahhh, today i also received women day's souvenir from....a girl...hehee. Thats a watch from Hong Kong. its look nice. We also went to coffee shop. After long time, i can smile, even laugh so much. My mind can be refreshed a little. Thanks for that and i wish u also get it all ur life.
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Sarash: I hope u gave baby, isnt it? I also heard that u increased ur weight so well. Im glad to hear that. Wish u and ur kids will be healthy and strongly, dear lovely sister.
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Bap rang: I stopped writing diary, dear! But not coz of sadness, just lack of time.Im so much busy since Tet holiday.Hows about u? ur face while smiling is my desire...heheheh....hence, keep ur smile, the all of lucks will come to ur life!

Hi nàng marie-vin : cám ơn nhiều nhé , hai mẹ con đang tạm ổn chờ đến tháng 5
Hi cả nhà ,
nhà mình dạo này có nhiều bạn mới , có nhiều tình yêu mới chúc cả nhà sớm đạt được đến đỉnh của hạnh phúc
Có nhiều thầy bói nói sao này Sarah sẽ giàu mà tới giờ chưa thấy giàu nữa mà bản thân của Sarah cũng ước mình được giàu mục đích để muốn hay thích gì thì chiếm đọat được thứ ấy như vàng , kim cương , nhà cửa chẳng hạn .....rồi mình gặp ông thầy tu ở chùa , mình hỏi thầy ơi sao con chưa giàu hả thầy ??? ông hỏi tại sao con muốn giàu ? Sarah cũng trả lời thật lòng thì con muốn giàu để được làm điều mình thích như mua cái này cái nọ cái kia !!! rồi ổng nói : vậy khi mua được những thứ đó rồi thì sao ? Sarah mới nói thì chon thấy hạnh phúc , sung sướng ...ông thầy ổng cười ổng nói nếu vậy thì thầy thấy con giàu quá rồi còn gì ??? giờ con đang có được hạnh phúc rồi đó !
Cho nên ngẫm lại mình thấy sống mà tận hưởng từng phút giây cảm thấy thoải mái vui vẻ hạnh phúc từng thời điểm là đã đạt tơí đỉnh cao của sự sung sướng my mãn rồi , như được thăng chức thì cũng vui được có 1 tuần , mua được món hàng mình thích cũng chỉ vui được vài ngày ....nên còn ngày nào cứ enjoy và vui ngày ấy đừng có mà tính tóan mong đợi những điều cao xa , so sánh, than thân trách phận , rồi tự hỏi sao mình yêu chi anh ấn xa xôi biết có cưới được không ? rồi sao anh này nghèo quá không nghề ngỗng gì ? rồi là sao bạn trai mình không được như nguời khác , rồi cưới nhau rồi ở đâu .........suôt ngày suốt tháng suốt năm cứ rong rũi rồi tự mình hành hạ cảm xúc của mình và của nhau rồi tư đánh mất cái hạnh phúc đỉnh cao nhất của hiện tại là được nhìn thấy nhau , được nói chuyện chia sẽ được cùng mơ và cùng cố gắng vì những điều tốt đẹp .
Sarah hơi dài dòng , chúc cả nhà khỏe . và quên cái anh chàng phá đám kia đi từ nay vơí tài khỏan củ anh không phát biểu được lời nào đâu , và các bạn cũng đừng mất thời gian để đi dọn thứ rác rưởi của quốc gia bên cạnh nhé .

sau chuyện tối qua mình đã có thông báo tới ban quản trị và sáng nay ngủ dậy thì nhận được msg là họ đã giải quyết xong tên bịnh hoạn đó rồi nhưng không nói rõ là như thế nào. Theo cách mà chị sarah nói thì chắc có lẽ anh ta đã bị khóa nick, không còn cơ hội vào đây la hét ỏm tỏi. Chỉ hy vọng anh ta không tạo ra nick mới để làm ô nhiễm forum này.

ôi cả nhà yêu dấu của em ơi ,,, hổm rày em quá trời bài kiểm tra nên chỉ lên thăm nhà một chút rồi di ,,, hok có cơ hội dể nói chuyện với nhà mình gì hết hihi ,,, cho em sorry
8/3 MẶC DÙ QUA RỒI NHƯNG CHO EM XIN CHÚC MUỘN HIHI ,,, CHÚC CHỊ EM NHÀ MÌNH NGÀY CÀNG VUI VẺ ,,, MẠNH KHỎE ,,, XINH RA HƠN NỮA ,,, CHO MẤY ANH ẤN NGẤT NGÂY LUN HIHI,,,,[r2)][r2)][r32)][r32)]@}
hôm trước 8/3 anh gửi cho em cái tin nhắn là HAPPY WOMEN DAY ,, SHONA ( OH GOD SHE IS STILL CHILRENT ) trời dọc câu trước dễ thương quá trời ,,, dọc câu sau thèm beat anh ghê ,,, nghĩ seo ,,, nói ta trẻ con ,, ghét ghét ghét ~X~X~X
@cop chị ơi ,,, chừng nào chị mới qua ANH vậy chị ,,,, hihi ,, chị của em chắc dang nhớ honey tha thiết dây hihi
shara_shara chị yêu ,,, chày ơi ,,, chị giàu vậy rồi mà mún giàu nữa chắc thành tỷ phú quá hihih ,,, chi ơi ,, chị mà có thành tỷ phú thì cho em nhờ vả nha hihihi
marie_vin chị yêu ,,, anh chị sao rồi ,,,hihhi chắc anh dang chuẩn bị rước chị phải hem hihih
hoadai ,,, kien ,,,mina...rahu,,,yingsu ,,,, chúc mọi người vui vẻ ,,, hạnh phúc lun lun
shahilk hihhi how are u friend ,,, good luck for u ,,, and always smile

@Marie Hey baby, reading your message , I come and type immediately. Sorry dear, recently I can not access in Facebook. When you come online, give me a miss call, I will chat with you if I am around.
What has happened??? Sam made you angry again???

About our forum, what you said out is exactly what I feel , you express straight forward and clear, perfect, sis Marie. I want our forum to be warm and emotional as it was before. Anyways, bad thing seem to be over, come and share with us, dear.

Sis Sarah.... I like your attitude sis.
I am expecting seeing your cute baby, he/she could be a milk chocolate bar, sweet sweet...
Enjoy what we have at this moment. When I was back Vietnam, I missed my boyfriend so much. Anyways,every morning ride motorcycle to work, I feel great, wow, my city is so clean, ppl are nicely (not as dusty as India), food is so great, super market are full of attractive fashionable dress . Vietnam is so comfortable and wonderful, it is not heaven but it have everything I need to be happy, no, most of thing, except my darling. Each moment can offer you certain nice thing, enjoy what that moment . Life is like that... if we look back or wish that we have another moment, then we will live in memory (past) or live in unreality ( future).. Be cool.

@salisk thanks for sharing your idea about caste. I know India is huge and vary concept are still exist at the same time , which cannt be changed soon. That also made India have to tackle a lot of problem. OOh, India, a headache country, but why still I love it .

@cop how are you baby...keep writing dear. Are you enjoying home sweet home. How is you boy sweet boy... We all like that cute guy and curious about your story...Now it turn to distance love as ours .

Dear my friend, I will be very very happy, excited and glad if you girls can come HOME and make it like a HOUSE as before. PLZ COME BACK

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If you really love it, PLZ visit it more often and make it like HOME like u r doing right now. I am waiting for your story gee. Hope both of you can be together soon.

Best regards,@}

marie_vin my lovely sister ,,, are u and ur bf fighting ,,,, my sister dont worry ,,, i know both u will understand good of eachother ,,,, maybe in sometime you and him fighting but by that thing make u and him more than and ur love with him will grow up ,,, in married life sometime also have fight but importand after that both have understand and love eachother more than or no ,,, my dear sister ,,,, i know u are a good girl ,,, very intelligent ,,, and very great ,,,, u and ur bf will good than ,,, dont worry ,,, i love you so much

em đồng ý với sis @marie_vin2000 @sara_sarah @gee. em xin lỗi mọi người vì thời gian qua đã gây ra những chuyện ko đáng có trong forum này.
Chúc các sis một ngày cuối tuần vui vẻ, ấm áp bên gia đình