LOVE FIRST OR CAREER FIRST ????

So Letmebe, what is your standpoint? at first, you said that we should focus on developing our career and then you wanted to have lover first and together go ahead....
How can you change your mind so fast in a short time like that?

hehe, such a headache. Well, I''ve always let love lead my way. I''m probably a loser some might say but as long as it feels right, I''ll do it.

You can focus on career anytime. Never to be late. But if your love was gone away, you can only sigh.

LOVE SOMEONE WHO CAN GIVE BEST OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOUR CAREER!!!

The wedding of my sister will celebrate on Apr 6th this year. Her mom said that she wants her daughter () to get married at the age of 25 or 26, she''s 22 yrs old now, too early.
Then my mom advised her: If you prevent this marriage, your daughter may miss her... charm (lỡ duyên) in some certain ways, and she may live alone forever. Just accept this love and may she all best.
Sometimes we have no choice, just welcome it as it arrives whether it''s love or any opportunity.

Is she your sister or your cousin ?

My cousin

To me career is the most important thing and love is the second one. If you love or get marriage without job, you can''t have money to live with love. I think you have good job you have good love, too (it last long).
But the question "Love or career first?" is so difficult to answer! How do you know that when you fall in love with some one? I don''t know and you too, right? But you study well (or lucky) you can get good job, I''m sure! If you love , it will help you have more power to do any thing. Love or career first is allright. Idon''t mean that career is every thing! You can love and do your work, it''s OK. I mean that if you want to have a long love , you should do your work well.

22 years old is just a kid who is unable to handle complex human relations. But if you wait for everything ready to end ur single life, ur life will be so boring. You may suceed in everything you do as you planed.Are we computers which are programmed? No.
Take risks.Life is just a big game we can only play once. Bid big and win big. Your life will be interesting.

I totally agree. However, love is like a knife w/ 2 blades. It can either help you or hurt you. A good relationship can stimulate you to work harder and become a better person. Your lover can help your career by giving advise and encouraging you. On the other hand, if love affects you negatively, try to separate it from your work or study. Otherwise, it would hurt your career dearly, like it did to mine.