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TOPIC FOR FRIDAY (1ST JUNE 2007)
HOW TO PERSUADE
Everyday, you have to persuade the other to do what you want them to do for you.
... A boy persuades his parents to give him money to buy new toy
... A girl persuades the saler to reduce the charming dress''s price
... A man persuades his boss to increase his salary
... A wife persuades her husband not to leave family behind
How to persuade effectively?
How to make them willing to do it?
Come and join BE offline this Friday (1st June 2007)
Time: 19:00 to 21:00
Place: Anh Viet Center- 14 To Hieu, Nghia Tan, Cau Giay
There will be many interesting activities and games for you to enjoy
Please contact me if you come for the 1st time.
My YM: choconlonton83@yahoo.com
My phone: 0912 431 066 or 9034187 (cityphone)

TOPIC FOR FRIDAY (1ST JUNE 2007)
HOW TO PERSUADE
Everyday, you have to persuade the other to do what you want them to do for you.
... A boy persuades his parents to give him money to buy new toy
... A girl persuades the saler to reduce the charming dress''s price
... A man persuades his boss to increase his salary
... A wife persuades her husband not to leave family behind
How to persuade effectively?
How to make them willing to do it?
Come and join BE offline this Friday (1st June 2007)
Time: 19:00 to 21:00
Place: Anh Viet Center- 14 To Hieu, Nghia Tan, Cau Giay
There will be many interesting activities and games for you to enjoy
Please contact me if you come for the 1st time.
My YM: choconlonton83@yahoo.com
My phone: 0912 431 066 or 9034187 (cityphone)

Reference:
How to persuade and influence people!
Do you want to know how to persuade people to do what you want?
Would you like to know how to get someone to do something without making them feel like you are bossing them around?
Here is the secret õ?Ư
Some advertising copywriters (people who write advertisements for newspapers, television, and magazines) have found that some people are persuasive because they ask in a certain, non-threatening way.
Instead of saying, õ?oTurn off that trashy program you''re watching on TV,õ? the persuaders will say õ?oDo you want to watch something better?õ?.
Instead of saying, õ?oShut the door; you''re letting freezing cold air inside,õ? they might say õ?oDo you think if we shut the door we might all be warmer?õ?.
Instead of saying, õ?oFind me a pen to write with,õ? the persuaders will say, õ?oDo you know where there is a pen or pencil I can write with comfortably?õ?
The difference
You probably noticed that the first a lot of questions are commands. They say õ?oDo this, do that!õ? Many people hate hearing commands and resist doing it. Even if they do it, they don''t do it willingly.
What you might not have noticed is that in each of the persuasive questions there is also a hidden command or suggestion disguised in a friendly way.
How to give persuasive commands
Of course, this persuasive technique will not work every time. If you are not old enough to have a driver''s license and you say to dad, õ?oWould you like to give me the keys to your new car?õ? you are not likely to be successful.
But you may be as successful as 15-year-old Marcus was. His mother told him to tidy up his room right now because it looked messy. He was in the middle of an important homework assignment. So he said, õ?oWouldn''t you rather wait until I''m not busy doing homework so I will do it properly?õ?, and she said õ?oFine. Just make sure you do it.õ?
Before Marcus had learned the persuasive questioning technique he would have dropped his homework and tidied his room and then have lost concentration when he came back to his homework. He found that this new technique gave him time he genuinely needed to get his homework done.
Make it part of your life
It may amaze you how often you can get people to do what you want if you make this method part of your life (as long as your request is reasonable). It''s simply a better method than giving commands.
Here are some more examples of commands within questions. (First, word your command. Second, put a friendly question around it.)
õ?oDo you think you could help me with my homework?õ?
õ?oWould you like to feed the dog before he gets restless?õ?
õ?oCould you call the church and find out when we are meeting for the tract drop?õ?
õ?oCan you make a good cup of coffee for us?õ?
õ?oDo you have time to come to church with me next Sunday?õ?
õ?oAre you able to take me to the baseball finals?õ?
õ?oIs it OK if Chris wants to stay with us next weekend?õ?
õ?oAre you able to spare a minute to let me show you something important from the Bible?õ?

Reference:
How to persuade and influence people!
Do you want to know how to persuade people to do what you want?
Would you like to know how to get someone to do something without making them feel like you are bossing them around?
Here is the secret õ?Ư
Some advertising copywriters (people who write advertisements for newspapers, television, and magazines) have found that some people are persuasive because they ask in a certain, non-threatening way.
Instead of saying, õ?oTurn off that trashy program you''re watching on TV,õ? the persuaders will say õ?oDo you want to watch something better?õ?.
Instead of saying, õ?oShut the door; you''re letting freezing cold air inside,õ? they might say õ?oDo you think if we shut the door we might all be warmer?õ?.
Instead of saying, õ?oFind me a pen to write with,õ? the persuaders will say, õ?oDo you know where there is a pen or pencil I can write with comfortably?õ?
The difference
You probably noticed that the first a lot of questions are commands. They say õ?oDo this, do that!õ? Many people hate hearing commands and resist doing it. Even if they do it, they don''t do it willingly.
What you might not have noticed is that in each of the persuasive questions there is also a hidden command or suggestion disguised in a friendly way.
How to give persuasive commands
Of course, this persuasive technique will not work every time. If you are not old enough to have a driver''s license and you say to dad, õ?oWould you like to give me the keys to your new car?õ? you are not likely to be successful.
But you may be as successful as 15-year-old Marcus was. His mother told him to tidy up his room right now because it looked messy. He was in the middle of an important homework assignment. So he said, õ?oWouldn''t you rather wait until I''m not busy doing homework so I will do it properly?õ?, and she said õ?oFine. Just make sure you do it.õ?
Before Marcus had learned the persuasive questioning technique he would have dropped his homework and tidied his room and then have lost concentration when he came back to his homework. He found that this new technique gave him time he genuinely needed to get his homework done.
Make it part of your life
It may amaze you how often you can get people to do what you want if you make this method part of your life (as long as your request is reasonable). It''s simply a better method than giving commands.
Here are some more examples of commands within questions. (First, word your command. Second, put a friendly question around it.)
õ?oDo you think you could help me with my homework?õ?
õ?oWould you like to feed the dog before he gets restless?õ?
õ?oCould you call the church and find out when we are meeting for the tract drop?õ?
õ?oCan you make a good cup of coffee for us?õ?
õ?oDo you have time to come to church with me next Sunday?õ?
õ?oAre you able to take me to the baseball finals?õ?
õ?oIs it OK if Chris wants to stay with us next weekend?õ?
õ?oAre you able to spare a minute to let me show you something important from the Bible?õ?

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