"Can a newlywed live with your parents?"

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I think a newlywed can live with their parents:
- Use the available furnishings in house of parents can save money from rending or buying a new house
- If their child is born, the grandmother can help them to foster, they will have peace of mind to work or to travel for some times.
- Family sentiment will increase and maintain
- Also they have to help their parents by cooking meals, clean the house, washing and to take care of parent''''''''''''s health.
Được axlrose_guy sửa chữa / chuyển vào 18:10 ngày 15/01/2005

In today''s increasing changing society, the question of whether a newlywed can live with her parents stirs much controversy, both at individual level and in society at large. Although opinions as to this issue vary widely among people, my view is that a newlywed brings nothing to her husband''s home but chaos and annoyance.
First off, since a family itself has been organized around a solid foundation of values and ideas that have built up over the many years of living, interacting and sharing things with one another, someone new to this organization is very likely to break things up, especially now that youngsters are embarking upon an increasingly modernized world in terms of views, ideas and values, which gives her the elbow to act her own way and break away from conventional ways of things found in older generations like her husband''s parents. As a result, the likelihood of quarelling with her husband''s parents over petty things, such as when to wash clothes, whether to crank Exhumed up, how much noisy an in-house weekend party is, etc. , is foolproofly obvious, to the extent that it becomes crystal-clear in everybody''s eyes.
Beyond that, the loose way of life that she carries with herself into her new home may disrupt the whole system of tra***ionally moral values held by her husband''s parents. As an example, she may well feel that making up sloppily in front of her husband''s parents does no harm but to show that they are on the 9th cloud enjoying their mawkish, ***-laden honeymoon weeks, but this obviously is an eyesore to their parents. A less bad scenario is that the parents get so angry as to run away and into their bedrooms slamming the door. This being so, a rift has begun to build up but not yet to the point where things cannot be sorted out smoothly. The worse case that is beyond any settlement is that her parents suddenly find that going back to the old, loose ways as are being shown off by the newly wed couple is a good thing to do, despite their advanced years and debilitating physical con***ions, in which case the old parents just imitate the young couple, billing and cooing just as if nothing really mattered, to the point that both find themselves in thirst for burning *** that they have starved and lacked for such many years. And the upshot is that after reverting *****ch a way of life they will have to make calls to hospitals requesting immediate hospitalization to pre-clude any severe consequences of health.
Another problem may be that the newly wed may dominate her husband''s parents in decision-making that is bestowed upon them as a rule. For example, she may decide to throw away the old TV and buy a huge flat screen TV without consent from her parents, or even in the absence of any discussion thereof. Worse, she may think that the best way to ensure privacy of a newly married life is to send the old parents somewhere such that the house is now occupied by no one else but the couple.
Finally, the bride many give mental shocks to her parents if she is a loose women, in the sense that while her husband is at job, she hooks up with a young boy, for example, right in the house, or even worse, in the witness of her parents just as if nothing were really going on. This shock, strange as it may look, happens in many of the loosely educated families here and there.
In a nutshell, if a decent income permits a separate living the newly wed couple should move into a new, even small, house in which to enjoy to the utmost what they expect from each other in terms of ***ual life, privacy and way of life. If that is not the case, they may stilll live with their parents for the first few months or even years but they should take care to partion their parents off their private life, *** or otherwise, so as to avoid any unnessary inconvenience and disturbance.
P/S: First draft

My answer is "No!" Why the heck anyone, newlywed or not, should live with my parents ! My parents (and their house) are mine, all mine and only mine. I do not want any bloody newlywed around my parents, no, negative, thank you very much.