Chuyên mục tình ******** yêu

Still I'm not totally convinced !
Love means trust. So why are we jealous? Is it because we don't trust our partners enough?

No, sis 6sense, jealousy doesn't mean â?owe don't trust our partnersâ? at all. Well, it is true to say "Love mean trust" but it's also absolutely correct to state "Love means selfishness". When we're in love, we kind of want our partners to be ours only. Isn't it true? So it's perfectly normal to get jealous when we see our partners with somebody else. Jealousness, to a certain extent, shows how much we love our partners, and he/ she may feel like it. (that's why some people even go out with others just to make their sweethearts jealous. I will never do this, though ) But remember, you should learn how to control your jealousy, don't let it go too far, lovers may end up like strangers just because of jealousy, you know so be careful.
As we go on, we remember all the times we had together
As our lives change, come whatever
We will still be FRIENDS FOREVER

I agree with you that Love means truth. "The best proof of love is trust"
But sometimes (not all time) u r jealous when u love someone. Maybe love means that u r jealous

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow

No no no. I don't think so. I think that u will regret if u do. Cause when u have a close friend, there is no limit of ***, so when u love her of him, u will have no feeling with your partner. Your love will end with your friendship.
"Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship - never"

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow

Yeah, this is a very famous quote, yet my friend and I have 2 totally different opinions to make out this sentence. For my part, it simply implies that you can't love someone when what you have with him/ her is only friendship. We shouldn't mistake love for friendship (well I'm not sure at all if "mistake for" can be used for things, not people ) But my friend supposes this sentence has a more complex meaning. To her, itâ?Ts all about the relationship after love. When you end up with somebody, what remains maybe friendship but it's almost impossible to fall in love with that person again, for this "friendship" is not as nice as before, you canâ?Tt have deep feelings for him/ her once more. (This would also be an interesting topic for us to discuss next) Well, do you guys catch what I'm trying to say? Which one of us is right? I always have big trouble in expressing things on my mind If you don't understand, I'll write in Vietnamese, then.
As we go on, we remember all the times we had together
As our lives change, come whatever
We will still be FRIENDS FOREVER

hic, ok ms Brit. I don't know how to write "ranh giới về giới tính".
I have two friends. One is male, the other is female. We're friends when we're at 1st form. We're neibour too.
Our childhood is very beautiful, but when the boy want me to help him to flirt the girl. Up to now, I don't know why I gave him a hand. The girl agreed to be his girl-friend. After about 2 or 3 months, This relationship was broken down.
When I asked why? They answered that They have no feeling with each other except "su tran trong" with each other. At that time, we were at 11st form.
Now, they can't be friend again.
For my part, I think that " tình yêu là kẻ thù của tình bạn".
I have 2 female friend, both of them are close friend. I'll never love a close friend, cause I don't believe that it's love.

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow

It's ironic isnt it? You want to have a friendship in love, but you dont want to have a relationship growing from a friendship.
If anyone here watch series "Friends", there is an episode in which Ross was hesitating in asking Rachel out, and Joey told Ross that if he didnt act right away, he will be stuck forever in "friend zone", and he would never be able to be her lover.
Theoretically speaking, best love comes from friendship, since only your friends would understand you best, which is a wonderful foundation for love. However, nothing is perfect, and not every pair of friends could be come lovers then husband-wife and live happily everafter.
What then? can we come back to being friends? Most of people say yes, you can. But from what I have seen in real life, most of them cant come back being friends. One of the reason, imo, is the intimacy factor. No matter how close a friend you are, there is always a border between you two. But once you become lovers, that barrier is broken. In Western countries, since this barrier isnt too important, its easy to go back to be friends. But that is not the case in our country.
What can I say? Carefully consider your friendship and your feelings. Ask yourself, how would you compare your feeling for him/her (from here on I would use "her" since I am a guy, ladies replace her with him at your convinience ) with your precious friendship. Is it worth it to push the relationship forward?
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ERRRR, WRONG QUESTION.
If you are asking yourself that question, you probably havent loved her enough, so you'd better stay still.
But, if you feel that even being him/her best friend is not enough for you, you want to be able to care more and more for her beyond the level of a friend, to share her feelings, then I say:
"What the hell are you waiting for, go to her, dont let this stupid friendship discussion hold you back."
That's my 2cp
five centimeters away from the rim

This is a great topic, isnâ?Tt it? Since sis 6sense is now away on vacation, I will give another topic for us to discuss on behalf of her. Well, a few weeks ago, my closest friend asked me what I would do if later in life, my boyfriend, after some time going out with me, fall for her.
This is exactly the topic I want to know all of your ideas. What would you do if your boyfriend loved your dearest friend?
I will tell you what I told her later. Now can you show me how will you react if youâ?Tre in this case?
As we go on, we remember all the times we had together
As our lives change, come whatever
We will still be FRIENDS FOREVER