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Here are references for the topic this week:
Parents Need to Teach Their Children How to Behave

As children grow up, parents have to find reasonable ways in order to help their children, advise them, punish them, lead them to achievement, and to teach them. Sometimes children under ten behave inappropriately. For example, they learn to say offensive words and they show no respect to their relatives.
I think parents in these cases should punish their children in a reasonable way. Children must know those kinds of attitudes are not good at all, but, sometimes parents never teach children who are growing up how to behave. These children think the way they behave is completely correct.
This group of children ends up being bad citizens, bad parents, and bad workers. Society can blame their parents for hundreds of murders, rapes, assassinations, child abuse cases, and all kinds of crimes we can see everyday on TV news and in newspapers.
Therefore, I think the different societies all over the world should look for better methods to bring up their children. Otherwise, nobody will be able to live near his neighbors in the near future.
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You Learn More When You Cry Than When You Smile
I think both success and failure are important when you are raising children. Success is important because it encourages children to do something better. It teaches them how they can avoid failure, and once they have had success, they will want to experience success again.
But even though success can teach children, we must remember that in their early years they learn through their own failures.
For example, when children start to walk, they always fail many times before they finally can walk by themselves. Their parents just encourage them to do it, but they can''t do it for them.
Everybody remembers both their successes and their mistakes, but I think that you remember more when you cry than when you smile.
Some people argue that failure doesn''t build character; however, everybody knows that when you make a mistake, you shouldn''t do that again. At that moment you learn through your own failure, and you have started to build your character.
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Kids Learn More From their Failures[blue]
think raising a child is the most difficult and important job there is. Children are always complicated because they have their own feelings and thoughts. Therefore, they don''t know what they want to do and what they feel. It''s very important at that time that parents teach them.
Definitely I think that kids learn more from their failures than from their successes because when kids experience failure, they never forget that situation. But even though I think kids can learn more by failing, I also think it is important that their parents to always try to encourage and help them.
In ad***ion, it is not a good idea for parents to comment on the mistakes that their kids make because it''s enough to explain only once. If parents constantly remind kids about the mistakes they make, the kids might have more problems when they grow up. It''s important for parents to teach their kids that they can do things better day by day and gradually obtain experience about life.
Raising them in a good atmosphere is helpful because their parents have good relationships with them. However, when the parents are divorced or have a lot of problems, children sometimes have problems.

The VARIOUS DISADVANTAGES Of Being A Strict Parent!!
Parenting is the typical aspect which can affect the life of your child.
With good parenting, your child will obtain good behavior and good characteristics, where as with the bad parenting the total behavior of the child will be affected and it canâ?Tt be changed easily if once your child has crossed certain age limit.
Certainly the children of the strict parents will have different behaviors when compared to normal parents.
They tend to feel a lot for the little things which occur more normally in their routine life because they will be more afraid of their parents and feels that their parents will shout at him/her for those things that have happened to them.
If you are a strict parent, try to keep one thing in mind i.e. â?oyou cannot be able to achieve anything with strictness, whereas with love and affection you can win the whole worldâ?. Do you want proof for this?
Tell two different tasks for your child one with strictness and other with love, certainly the task which was requested with love will be completed by him/her where as the task which was ordered with strictness will be incomplete.
Even though, the task ordered with strictness completes, you can be able to observe several faults or mistakes in that task.
Donâ?Tt feel yourself as a great strict parent by imposing the orders to your child. By this type of behavior the heart of your child will sink a lot and he/she may not pay proper interest on the tasks which have to be performed on their daily routine.
Sometimes they also feel depressed with your strictness and results in several health problems.
Other than these things, some more problems which can affect your child if you behave as a strict parent are:
* Basically the behavior of the child who has strict parents will vary in two ways i.e. one is as a coward and the other is as a rude or harsh fellow.
* If such behavior is developed with in them, then it cannot be changed easily.
* Sometimes they even revolt against your order and donâ?Tt care you if you remain as a strict parent for long period of time.
* Once negative feeling develops in them, they donâ?Tt bother you and this negative feeling continues throughout their life.
* The levels of love and affection will also be decreased on the parents and they will not share any thing with you.
* The children who develop rudeness or harshness will behave in the rough manner and he/she tend to forget humanity when they feel tensed.
So, donâ?Tt behave like a strict parent and provide good care, affection and love for your child. By this, humanity and good behavior will be developed in your child.
Source: http://www.theparentszone.com/