Điều gì? Khi nào? Như thế nào? [What?When?How]

What?When?How

6th June

I suddenly realise that I need to become more mature .
I have admited that on one day, my mummy would go away my life .
How difficult it is for me to admite this !

Live and think the way people almost do .

Who can show me the way to live like almost people ?



Change your thought, change your life .

do and donot complain.
look at your result and donot thinking much
start from simple to complex. you must finish something as the child do before you be come a big person

Je ne sais pas.

@lovelyciaboy lẽ Se nên học cách suy nghiệm.Trước giờ tớ ít khi suy ngẫm điều gì .
@kensaiì004 :me too

June 24th 2011

yesterday, I knew my score of enterprise score be 4.7 , under usual .It alarmed me that :”your knowledge is so bad ,let’s change it.If not, you would have the worse life”.

Why did I have so low scores like that, not just enterprise law but also Hồ-Chí-Minh ideology ?

Firstly, I broke habit of precious reading before going to my class .Therefore, it is difficult for me to understand what tutor said, especially when his lecture was really boring.

Secondly, I did not organise properly among study, part-time job, and entertainment.After a hard day in work, i said myself: “You are exhausted, let’s relax”.It was not a bit of hesitance, I entertained:listening to music, suffering web, watching films… and forgot completely my lessons.More badly,I even cuted school some days.

Thirdly,I did not try to solve complex knowledge .As the result, when meeting difficult questions, I just knew to said"Oh my god" .

This semester is third .I am facing to the most important year before graduating I am really worried for my future.Phuùu...

June 24th 2011

yesterday, I knew that I scored 4.7 on enterprise law ,which was lower than usual .It alarmed me that :”your knowledge is not solid enough .You nêd to change.If not, you would have a worse life”.

Why did I have so low scores like that, not just enterprise law but also Hồ-Chí-Minh ideology ?

Firstly, I broke the good habit of reading before school .Therefore, it became more difficult for me to understand what tutor said, especially when his lectures were really boring.

Secondly, I did not organise properly among study, part-time job, and entertainment.After a hard day in work, i said myself: “You are exhausted, let’s relax”.It was not a bit of hesitance, I entertained:listening to music,web surfing, watching films… and forgot completely about my class.Even worse,I have cuted school for some days.

Thirdly,I did not try to solve complex knowledge .As the result, when meeting difficult questions, I just knew to said"Oh my god" .

This is the third semester.I am facing the most important year before graduation. I am really worried about my future.Phuùu...

I am now 32 years old and due to my sickness, I have to live on my parents. It does not mean that I do not work but when my health got worse, I had to cease working in order to overcome my sickness.

Now I am working again and in treatment to recover my balance. I have to say "balance" because it concerns my psychology and emotion.

What I am telling you is that I have relied on my parents since birth and I am continuing to do that even though I am in my thirties.

My mom often says " If you were not ill, you had now gottten married and support yourself and your own family like any other person or, more exactly, other girl does."

And my dad often says: "You kid are more than thirty now but you stick around your parents like a little child."

In my own view, I notice that I could not do it another way and I have no power or strength to be independent. Sometimes my parents add that to bear a child means to bring him or her hurt and pain living this painful life. He wished he had not given birth to me because I am so miserable.

All in all, I know that I cannot depend on my parents all my life, so I am trying to overcome illness and learn more to be well-qualified for my job to stabilize my career. I am hoping that in the coming time, I can earn my own living and even help my family with my ability to earn money.

Telling my business, I totally sympathize with you because I understand much the feeling of dependence and the worry of living alone. I suggest you try a little bit every day until you find you are gathering a great effort, then every thing is better however the thing is you must try, even just a little. I myself suppose to try a bit day by day is easy to do and succeed. Do not worry much about your current situation because you are still young. It is good that you have an awareness of your future and better try from now on. Remember to try and finally you find yourself effortful with a bit of joy of recognition.

When you have tried for some days, one day you find yourself exhausted, just relax and continue trying on the following days. Do not lose heart. One day you will smile happily.