DISTANT LOVE - possible or impossible ?

Go on, partners, but beware of the words! What a wonderful topic we have ! (and wonderful people with those wonderful thoughts
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Di! have you got any experience in this field?or are u a novice?Don't just say.I have experienced this and thought this is impossible(to me ^_^he he)
mess with the best,
die with the rest

You'll see what you want ! I'm waiting for more of your views.

Dirosemimi

Không ngờ chủ đề này hot ghê hén.... cũng có khá nhiều người có kinh nghiệm trong chuyện nì... Chắc đây là cái mô đen thời thượng wá... yêu phải có khoảng cách mới là sành điệu à....

Nothing's Impossible

Thank you for bringing up a nice issue to discuss about. As you guys have already had some swell opinions on the issue, Iõ?Td like to share some of mine about it in another perspective. You might call this short writing a mini research on my own. By and large, it is very subjective, but you are welcomed to make any comment on it anytime. Keep in mind that I have no intent to write this research for the purpose of promoting or slandering about all the websites listed below. This writing is purely for your own entertainment. Therefore, any false accusation of such matter will be kindly ignored. :0)
Someone has said that match-making is dead. Now that people are so swamped with all the bustle and hassle of their daily lives, they do not have time to sit down and follow an advice from a match-maker about their prospective mates. Or, young people do not want to take a great deal of time through a dating intermediary like in past to explore about their mates, they are more inclined to having shortcut approaches to be entangled in ***ual/non-***ual relationships. And so on, so forth. Or course, such assumptions are controversial and there would be more needed scientific grounds to back them up. Nevertheless, I can claim that match-making is not deadõ?Ư.yet. In fact, it has been thriving over the past few years. Iõ?Tm not talking about a real human match-maker here as human match-making is not as a national consciousness as it used to be, rather I would like to give some of my remarks about the virtual match-maker a.k.a online dating service. And, since we are Vietnamese here, I would narrow down to those online dating services for Vietnamese people only.
As a matter of fact, connecting someone who is seeking a serious or penpal relationship through the world wide web to another individual who has the same goal and charging them with some nominal õ?oserviceõ?? fee is a concept that has been applied just a few years ago. Now as the cost of internet service has been continuously spiraling down, online dating service is beginning to thrive. Those online Vietnamese dating websites are no exceptions. Due to the slow internet speed in Vietnam, most of Vietnamese dating websites are operated and managed from overseas, especially from United States. If you are an internet nerd , you would probably have seen these following websites.
1/ www.vietfun.com : all the profiles are freely accessible . This is a very popular website for chatting and making friends. It doesnõ?Tt have wow-looking background, but navigation and web page download are fast.
2/ www.anhyeu.com: this dating service has been in operation for less than 2 years. First they offered free membership which all the members had free access to other profiles. Yet, when the website got more caught up, all the members will be asked to pay a fee if they wish to see more of interesting profiles of the opposite *** (say, $20 for 3 month for the unlimited profile viewing). The agency is based in USA, but they also do their promotion and marketing in Vietnam at several designated internet centers.
Other than a large collection of pictures of members and a chat room and the upcoming Miss AnhYeu contest, this website offers no extra fun service such as games, love adviceõ?Ư.
3/ www.vietnameseladies.com, www.vietnamladies.com...: I strongly believe these websites are being run by a same company. They claim that they are the only oversea dating agency authorized by the Vietnamese government. The address is posted on the webpage , in case some of you desire to check it out. Overall, these websites have more professional look and the service is only for those who are serious about long-term relationship. The cost per one profile is way more expensive than www.anhyeu.com, $9 per profile.
Or course, there will be more existing Vietnamese dating website besides the afore-mentioned ones, but these websites that I write about are the most popular ones.
While there is nothing wrong with people seeking their soul mates via online service , the concept of dating online might have been being abused in different ways that I would rather not comment here as it is a sensitive subject and you are recommended to judge yourself .
I hope this writing is entertaining enough to you. Thanks for reading


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i think the most important is u can truth your lover or not. If u can not truth her or him. Then we cannot say anything at all.
This is just my opinion. Coz i have experience on that. Sory i cannot say that. Coz if i say it ot i feel ashame for myself.
Do you wanna drive with me or die??????? Andy

i think the most important is u can truth your lover or not. If u can not truth her or him. Then we cannot say anything at all.
This is just my opinion. Coz i have experience on that. Sory i cannot say that. Coz if i say it ot i feel ashame for myself. The girl who is love me she truth me so much but i couldnt be like her
Do you wanna drive with me or die??????? Andy

Long Distance Love_Why not?
There is no such a theory to frame this so-called Long Distance Love. Either it's possible or impossible depend on each couple.
I got to know my boyfriend through the net when I stayed in Australia and my boyfriend was all over in the States. Back in time, we were talking online and particularly on the phone a lot. We talked everyday, hours to hours. We talked, we laughed, we argued, we cried, we had fun,we share our good times and bad times, we told us our life routine, this and that,,,blah blah blah. One day he came to Australia to see me, I couldn't describe how happy and blissful I was at that time. After almost 1 month, he went back to US. Our heart are torn into pieces, we were so down, so frustrated. At that moment we knew we couldn't afford to stay apart. Five months later, we were back to Vietnam together and I decided to come to US. You can guess what happened next. There is a happy ending for us
I just want to share my 2 cents story to prove that "Nothing is impossible"
I'm HuMbLe BuT WaTcH OuT

Thank you Johntrung.I have enjoyed your wonderful writing.The websites which you provided have been very cool...hihihi.
Thank everybody bringing up this topic,especially brother Pickou and sister Sorority_Girl.Your idea "nothing is impossible" helps me a lot at this moment.Thank the sister for your story.That will be the model for me to follow.
Thank you very much.
Tao_lao

It's such a hardship to maintain a distant love, I think . Couples who have to live apart face with many difficulties and challenges.
The first challenge is loneliness, we need someone to share sadness and happiness, we need someone to go out with us at weekend , we need to be paid attention to and taken care of . Secondly, obvious, absolute, and definite, distance is a reason . There are something that could not share on the phone, on email , chatting . We need to see the ones we love smiling, crying " in the rain" . How their feelings, their emotions are .We can recognize and share with them, it's not necessary for them to tell us.
Thirdly, the feeling of safety. How can we control our love ? How can we know whether our lovers are faithful or not ? They are not by our sides, they're so far . Easily to say but difficult to carry out, belief must be greater than doubts and loves must be greater than worries .
If only we can overcome all of the above difficulties , we can have distant love for ourselves. As far as I'm concerned , distant love is possible only if both of two person belive strongly , love deeply , and try continuously . Indeed, concrete actions are so necessary . If we love, just love and believe and do nothing to keep our loves, they might be broken easily . So it's a need to bring romances, to do wonderful surprises, to do everything for our sweethearts. Overall, distant love need creativeness, efforts, deep love, belief to be alive.
So, we can say : nothing's impossible or you can win if you want or " love is regardless of mountains, rivers , gorge " .....AND DISTANCES .

Dirosemimi

Được dirosemimi sửa chữa / chuyển vào 17:06 ngày 13/10/2002