DISTANT LOVE - possible or impossible ?

Well then this is my perspective.In my experience,distant love is IMPOSSIBLE 'cause of two reasons.
First of all,you can not meet each other and if you watch him/her by webcam,scan pics...or something like that then you'll soon figure out that the man(or woman ) who is smiling at you assembles to(in common sense) the others who you meet through the chatting room,the dating website ....And if you sit in an air-con***ioned room and feel "wow,it's chill and i wish my partner was here to warm me up",then your mind will receive a sense like"hix,that's just an imagination,eliminate it and concentrate on your deed".Well well,have u ever loved?(don't ask u to be loved).What do u feel when u miss your lover?do you feel well.how can u satisfy your sense of love?hehe that is harsh,right?
(to be continued..)
mess with the best,
die with the rest

Well,the second is how can you trust your partner?this period of time is not the past,the man can find a pretty girl anywhere,and he can easily fall in love with such woman.(don't say your man is serious enough to elude any lurement.).Do you know man that he must be filled up his sense of love,don't and never let your man lack of love.--->the reason of disintegration of love after marriage.
So you are the man in love then you 'll say"phew! the vngirls always loyalt,don't worry,my soul".Then hehe you maybe fault.If you lucid in love then you must beware.nowadays ,there are also many notable man that can affect girl much more than you.They use NOKIA,@,Avenis... to attract girls.Then u 'll say to me "that's nothing mygirl is not like them".really?the boys now have many tips and tricks to lure girls.They are perhap guitarists,pianists, skillful basket ball players ,....and then they find your girl wonderful.(your girl is lonely and lack of love.)So what do they do next,then what do you next???How can u protect your woman in dream?By words?by send her cards and tell her wait to an anticipating end?Do you say to me that i am not a jealuos man ,let my girl do what she want.Then your love will be terminated.
If you wanna get a distant love then please try to pass through the obstacle that impede you and your lover.
Phew,so tired cause my grade of literature in highschool often 5 or 6.
mess with the best,
die with the rest

hey guys .. first of all, I'm not a member of your club, but I just found this topic is quite interesting to me .. so i decided to join in, hope that I'm welcomed here
Long distance relationship is something very sensitive. I don't believe everyone will end up at the same thoughts, but I just want to share what I feel about it. I agree with Dirosemimi that long distance relationship is sooooo hard to work out, don't say to keep it. As for me, I don't believe in long distance relationship, why? An idiom says: Out of sight, out of mind. I'm too young to have such serious relationship (which some of you might call "true love") and I think only that kind of relationship with such high percentage of seriousness may have chance *****rvive. Please don't say I need to trust on people more or anything like that, 'cause I did. Yes, about a year before when I left my home to go study abroad, my ex-boyfriend and I thought we could ignore the distance because we were sooo much in love (we had been going out for about 3 months before I left). It was fine at first, but then .. it's just tooo much. The changing of life, of me, and of him .. new enviroment, I met new guys, he met new girls .. we were too far to talk, to share thoughts, to understand each other's feelings. Then comes arguments, we were both tired. We realized that we were too young for such challenge and our relationship was not strong enough. We broke up, it hurted, but it made our lives easier. We're still good friends now. I lost part of my trust for long distance relationship from that incident. But again, just a month ago, some other thing happened. I was in TX last year for my senior year at highschool, now I'm moving on to a college in Ohio. I got another boyfriend in Texas, he was the nicest guy I've ever met, cute and emotional! I moved and ... we broke up. Although it hurts but it's better for both of us. Relationship is based on understanding and sharing .. when we're far, it's too hard to understand each other as well as sharing emotions. Love is made to make people happy and cheerful, but if there's a distance .. people start worrying about nonsense stuff, got jealous, got to fights, and broke up. A lot follow that cycle, but there's always exception. What I just mentioned was normal (or light relationship, especially those of teenagers or youth like mine) not a serious or true ones. I believe we should live our lives the fullest, so we don't have to regret when we look back. So just enjoy and be thankful for what a great life you have .. go out, love someone .. don't think about what's it going to be .. but let's live for today, let live for who you are! Love and cherish!!!

When everything's made to be broken
I just want you to know who I am

We all want to fall in love. Why? Because that experience makes us feel completely alive. Where every sense is heightened, every emotion is magnified, our everyday reality is shattered and we are flying into the heavens. It may only last a moment, an hour, an afternoon. But that doesn't diminish its value. Because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives.
Distant love is not easy to keep last long. But once you can do it, you have true love already. Basically, love needs faith and hope going along together. If you miss one of them, it 's impossible for you to have a real distant love. Even if you have all these 3 things, you still have to try your best to keep all the 3 things exist. You will find it hard. But after that, you won't feel any worry, any suspect, ... You surely will feel very good.
Actually, I have been through this experience already. And i must say that word is much more easier than doing it... I felt really confused and just wanted to give up many times. But my love for him was strong enough to keep me think over again. I have know him for years and why didn't I trust him? It 's a waste of time sitting alone and wondering what that person is doing, who he talks to, if he still loves me or not, if he tell lies to me, ... It's no point to do such things. If you do these, you don't really love. ... We have to sacrifice alot when love a person lives far away from us. ...

Wow,how wonderful your love and your belief in love are.I agree with the idiom "out of sight,out of mind".Yeah,you can find love ,you can figure out that you have surmounted the three hard things you listed.Well and now you believe that your choice is right and dedicate your faith and belief for it.So just one more question i ask you id you(you and your current boyfriend) engaged or married?In my opinion the end of a true love is marriage and nothing esle except it.Well,i don't care whether you sacrifire for love or not but i care about the same thing to your boyfriend.You know,love is a sensation occuring between two people.If you fall in love and don't care whether your partner loves you or not,you maybe fawn upon your lover .He/she maybe get away and don't really love you for many reasons.Maybe he/she get a try or feel sth compassionate.I don't mean that if you are lucid in love, you don't really love.But i mean you must avoid blinding your mind when you are in love.
There are maybe varied perspectives but i counsel you to aware of love.By that way you can obtain good results.
mess with the best,
die with the rest

Wanna know how distance love is possible? Look.............

http://photos.yahoo.com/bc/tinahoang11/lst?.dir=/Andretina&.src=ph&.view=
~Cho một con cá, sống một ngày; cho một cần câu, sống cả đời~
Được cutie_beautie_sushie sửa chữa / chuyển vào 10:52 ngày 16/10/2002

cant view your link .. wondering whats wrong?? im sooooo curious to see how long distance relationship works .. guess im just another unlucky girl!!!
Blue Moon!!

When everything's made to be broken
I just want you to know who I am

Được chickbox_4ever sửa chữa / chuyển vào 08:25 ngày 16/10/2002

ho* ho* i dun know why it doesn't work But If u wanna see, contact me Try a gain http://photos.yahoo.com/bc/tinahoang11/lst?.dir=/Andretina&.src=ph&.view=
I do know that distance love is not easy but I still believe just love, and try with all your heart, u'll see
~Cho một con cá, sống một ngày; cho một cần câu, sống cả đời~
Được cutie_beautie_sushie sửa chữa / chuyển vào 10:43 ngày 16/10/2002
Được cutie_beautie_sushie sửa chữa / chuyển vào 10:50 ngày 16/10/2002

There is another idiom " Absent mind makes the heart grow fonder". How about it? It's sweet, isn't it?
*****shi : I stand for you, girl and would you stand for me?
Because we know our stories better than anyone from here,,,hehehe
I'm HuMbLe BuT WaTcH OuT

sure thing, babe..i'm always stand for U heheh. Think that we shouldn't use so much words to illustrate this situation just 'cause our love is the brightest examples, rite? proud of it and try more, we'r going to get the sweetest fruits
~Cho một con cá, sống một ngày; cho một cần câu, sống cả đời~