EDUCATION - 1st problem : How can we teach a baby become a good child ?

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welcome all you guys

1st problem :
How can we teach a baby become a good child ?
c''mon guy, one day, in the future, you will get married and have babies, so I think from now on, you should imagine how can you be a good father/mother? Let me know your thoughts, I will be with you to solve your tough in teaching a baby

You are so thoughtful, CBC. I think there is no exact formula on how to raise/teach a baby to become a good child. Is there any that you know of?
However, I think "hitting" is not the best formula to raise a baby. Over a period of time, "Hitting" can become a numb thing for a child. They don''t really care whether they will get hit or not because they are raised that way then they would automatically assume that if they do something wrong or not, they would get hit anyway, so why not just go wild for the act of rebellious against their parents. They don''t learn from it, but they rather act against it to show their numbness. Therefore, I don''t agree to hit a child on certain level; this does not mean that I absolutely wouldn''t use it, I''d just use it rarely on severely circumstances. That''s how I think at the present, and I''ll add more later if I have more to share.

Hey, cbc. I donâ?Tt know how to teach a baby from the view of a teacher, but in my opinion, as long as you love them, youâ?Tll know how to teach them. Even though Iâ?Tve not got married yet, I pay much attention to think of the way of teaching them. Just remind of the time you were that age, what did you want? What did you expect people to do for you? Who did you love and why did you love them?? When we put ourselves in the same situation with the child, itâ?Ts easier to understand their mood and know how to treat them well.

yah, I definitely agree with both of you that Hitting is not a best way to teach a child although my Old granpa used to say : Thương cho roi cho vọt That''''s tra***ional way and it''''s not suitable to nowadays children coz not only children, we like NGỌT, too
It is said that child looks like a white paper, each behaviour of yours will be a deep impression to them. You are the mirror of them, they look at all what you did and they imitate you. If you are a scratch mirror, they are the same, too.
In my class (the third class), I seldom use beating-punishment to treat my pupils (8-year-old). I love them so much although they sometimes make me crazy
I often find other methods to train my pupils, reduce the beating for example : attract their attention to my lecture by easy-understand and humorous explanation, change the tense atmosphere in class by make a game, go outside when I feel anger them ...
There are many ways to teach a child, no need using the rod Beside, Intimidation is good way in some cases, " I play - off you if you dont obey me / If you do this, you will not be a good child, everybody don''''t love a child like that " it''''s so useful huh
As nham_nhi said, to know clearly what the children thinking , we should be them, act like them and be friends with them, it''''s good for us to teach them better.
any more ideas for this ?
* This year, I have a pupil who is always make me crazy at the 1st time I got my present class, he is really mischievous boy and I were so headache to think out the best way to understand this boy. One day, I sat down, talked to him about his family and knew that he loves his mom much more he do with father. Why? I ask, coz " my father always hits me, curses at me and be drunk all day ( it''''s so terrible huh ), my mom never do that. When I grow up, I''''ll protect my mom, I try my best to learn to satisfy my mom ".
Almost every children love their mom so much, why? the father''''s role is not deep to them, isn''''t it? or the father just knows the way to earn money and don''''t know the way to be close to their sons/daughters ?
And with a stubborn child, what will you do to eduacate him/her ?
give me your feeback, SEC guys
u?c coldbutcool s?a vo 22:24 ngy 11/10/2006

such a difficult trouble ??
Teaching is art. Especially teaching a child.So it''s hard to have a role for teaching huh . I agree with all of that the thought :"thương cho voi cho vọt" is not availble now.
I think if you want to teach children you must be thier friends. You must know about their dreams, their fears, their abilities, etc. So you must use all of your senses to do that. That such a big problem to a teacher huh? Cause they have so many child to look after!
On my opinion, there are some reasons that children love their mom more than their father :
The Fathers has less time for theirs children then the Mothers.
The Fathers pay little attention in details so that it''s hard to know exactly what their children need.
The Fathers used to express their love secretly so their children can''t feel it (because they are too young- I think so)
That''s the reasons. But now I saw more and more fathers know the way to express the love, pay attention on their chilren,... Maybe in the future children will love Father more than Mother ( just kidding).
About the boy of CBC. I think you should connect to his parent , espacilly his mother to know more about his situation. It will be helpfull to understand him. And then use your senses and your abilities to help him .
hehe I like to be a teacher but I think I am not good enough . So I decided not to be a teacher .
@ cbc: so admire teacher that love their pupils like you. my sis

it''s hard to take care and teach a baby become a good boy/girl in the future !
i need to follow this topic .. thnx

Hello everybody,
I just found this website on how to "Teaching Your Child Mutual Respect." It''s pretty fascinating to read. So, here it is:
Simple Rules For Your Child:
1. Child uses a respectful tone of voice
2. Child respects the privacy of others
3. Doesn''t gossip or speak unkindly of others
4. Treats property with respect
5. Avoids disrespectful gestures around others
6. Uses manners regularly
7. Does not interrupt
8. Avoids swearing and obscene gestures
Anyone wants to read more on this, click on this site: http://www.babyart.org/teen/teaching-your-child-mutual-respect-.html
Được TrnHo sửa chữa / chuyển vào 14:38 ngày 12/10/2006

For gatihon...the parents have to be the child''s best friends...make the child think we are friends so that the child can believe in their parents...If something is happing or changing on the child''s thinking,,,hopefully the kid can share to their friends - the parents...
Just a small thing,,for example : today...in the kindergarden,,,the teacher punished wrong to the child because of misunderstanding about him/her..So the child is so mad...he can not talk to anyone.At this moment...he needs to have a friend to express this feeling ..this time,the father should take a moment to listen and understand about his feeling...being truely friend
Being friend - sharing with their feeling - exlaining what the child should do..
For me,,,I hope my parents can be my closed friends because I feel they do not understand my generation...can not disclose to them what ''s going on with me. can not confide to my parents...

baiting is one of the good way to use, since my parent never or seldom do it to me
học đi má cho cục kẹo. thanks mom