*** education - why not ?

*** used to be a taboo thing in Vietnam , as well as most Oriental countries . As you guys know , our ancestors never mentioned this topic . They considered *** and ***ual intercourse to be private and instictive matters . They didn't want their children to know anything about it too soon . According to what they offen lectured , their children would learn how to do it by instinct one day as they had done before . It really terrible and incredible when a couple didn't have any chance to have a look at each other before marriage in ancient Vitenam !

Nowadays , *** is becoming common and it can be put forward as a topic conversation among young people . They can see and understand a lot by video , books , magazines , music of all kinds . So i think it's neccessary to accept *** Education as a subject in our schools . Let's look at the young in other countries and we will see there is nothing taboo with us when talking about *** . So we should learn about *** in order to help us a healthy way of living . Especially young people ( as me ) - We probably are very curious and eager to know about ev' thing . *** is so attractive , and so we always want to give it a try .Therefore , *** education is a indispensable subject in school , giving us valuable information which will be useful in our whole lives

So how about ur opinions , my dear friends

It's ok to kiss a fool .It's ok to let a fool kiss you . But never ever let a kiss fool you (*!*)

I aimed to enlighten the community on the decadence of the physical education regime. This marking period, I was required to take *** education class. I've been introduced to a new cirriculum that makes me sick.
Most parents aren't aware of what goes on in the *** education classroom, because frankly, most students think the class is hilarious and harmless. I think the class is despicable. Regarding our energetic teacher, I frequently ask myself the question, "Is she teaching us not to have ***, or to do it with latex and have fun?" If I was a school board member in this district, I would be appalled by the vulgar/enthusiastic demeanor of certain teachers who call themselves *** educators.
The class started out with a bang on day one. We studied charts of the male and female anatomy and went through a detailed examination of every single gland, tube, and
extremity of the human reproductive system. What's wrong with this segment? Nothing, save the fact that we have learned those parts over and over for 5 straight years! It's time for educators to face the facts. We may be kids, and we may be wild, but we don't have problems remembering where our genitalia are located, and how babies are made.
On day two, we were required to fill out a worksheet that stereotyped men and women. It was supposed to designate *** roles for males and females. Running down the middle of
the sheet was a list of various character traits, like "strong, compassionate, frail, and emotional" which we had to match with one ***. According to that worksheet, a male and a female can't be compassionate at the same point and time! Not only was this a lame waste of my time, but it went against all
the "diversity" education that we've had. Putting men and women into black and white categories is ***ist, and we shouldn't have to deal with it.
On day three, we had the priviledge of hearing a guest speaker from the Family Planning Center in town. She passed around diaphragms, spermicide canisters, an abundance of condoms, and even a vial of semen. She spoke on behalf of Abstinence for about 20 seconds, and then spent the remaining 40 minutes talking about the joys of contraceptives, and the availibility of free birth control pills, pregnancy tests, and pelvic exams. She made it seem like *** is a great thing for teens, regardless of the consequences. In fact, she presented so many contraceptives, and so many ways to prevent a pregnancy that it seemed as if not having *** would be an act of ignorance. Thank you, Family Planning. Kids now know that there are hundreds of safety nets for having protected, or unprotected ***. ***ual activity should reach an all time high with teenagers thanks to "planners" like this.
I continue to hope that the situation will improve, but it hasn't. Today we completed an activity that involved assigning an appropriate contraceptive to hypothetical situations. Although it was an option, I was disappointed to learn from our instructor that Abstinence was not the best choice for any of this situations. In another activity, we were faced with a teenager who wanted to have *** with his girlfriend, but didn't know how to approach her. We had to decide how he could use spermicide foam on his girlfriend while making it romantic for her. Since when is foam romantic? I suggested a bubble bath, utilizing the foam for something practical.
If there are any adults out there that care, you will do something about this situation. Ever day that goes by is pumped full of illegitimate reasons to have ***, and they dream up a new *** activity everyday. We don't deserve this treatment. Please let your opinions be known.

To my friend, let read and take a min to thinks about it before we go on with this topic.

I think they tried to show you a safe practice in *** life. They can't say "Don't do it", because you can't ban a teenager to have ***. If you ban them, you just make them more curious about it, so hey, why not take it openly.
Those educator probably want to guide you to a healthy thinking, a good way to approach ***. The reason *** education only takes place in year 9 or 10 is at those ages 15,16; a teen start to have desire for ***. They don't bring the *** subject to teach at year 8,7,6 or smaller kid. As you said, they don't want to encourage them and draw them a picture to follow.
In VN, *** education hasn't improved since not many teachers willing to talk to student about that stuff. In year 9, the biology subject teachs about human gender, when it comes to the human gender private parts, the teacher just explains it very briefly and quickly pass to another topic (coz even the teacher doesn't want to talk much about it). Below, male students smile and giggle, female students all red face and silent. No opinion, no questions asked. Too bad.!!
Cheer
God knows I tried ............... Plz don't ask for more!

Được Black_Rat sửa chữa / chuyển vào 07:34 ngày 08/11/2002

To : hcn8295 and Black_Rat . i think you guys are so sensitive with this topic . I wanna express my own opinion about *** and *** intercourse well -educated . i dont mean to encourage the young people have a *** too soon or eager to do it . Honestly , *** education in schools is not a bad way for us - young people - to learn about clearly . When i was a lit girl , my daddy allows me to have a look at American films which has some " hot " scenes displayed on . He said : " Bunny , you've seen a little bit about ***uality and i believe you probably know what sould do or not . you should have proper information about this in order to protect yaself from dangerous dieases in life " . Again , i mean we should learn about *** in order to help us a healthy way of living . If you guys don't like this topic anymore , i'll erase it right away . And please post more interesting topics than !
Anyway thank for your opinions !
Life's just a never ending road of lonely days
It's ok to kiss a fool .It's ok to let a fool kiss you . But never ever let a kiss fool you (*!*)
Được nangsaigon sửa chữa / chuyển vào 22:22 ngày 08/11/2002

wé, I think I'm very very open about this thing, not sensitive at all. geez!!! "we should learn about *** in order to help us a healthy way of living" is what I meant too.
God knows I tried ............... Plz don't ask for more!

Well, at least wê?Tre got the snappy slogan part down.
I read.
I researched.
I continued bouncing back and forth.
In the end, I figured it this way:
There are different kinds of public opinions when it comes to ?o *** EDUCATION?.
What is most important for we wants to learn and why?

Sorry , i'm not in a good mood recently , that's why i got mad at you guys . So sorry about this ... and Keep this discuss going smoothly , my dear friends . Go on .
It's ok to kiss a fool .It's ok to let a fool kiss you . But never ever let a kiss fool you (*!*)

I agree we had better have *** education. Someone say when do that: we are Vẽ đường cho hươu chạy . But in my opinion, even when we draw the road to deer, it somehow better than let deer go in a wrong way . All we know AIDS and other diseases cause by the lack of knowledge to self-protect. So *** education, why not???
>>NangSaiGon: there is no reason to erase this topic
>>All: forgive for my very poor English
Never wait until the last moment to tell certain people that you love them.

Never wait until it's time to say goodbye

That's a good idea... c'mon everybody let's discuss more...

Nothing's Impossible

Let talk about STD:
Teens need to understanding what is STD (***ually Transmitted Diseases)?. They need the facts, which reveal two things: the only sure and reliable way to avoid becoming a
victim in this epidemic is to abstain from ***ual activity ?" not just
intercourse ?" until marriage and that the risk of contracting an STD increases dramatically the more ***ual partners one has.
Parents better start telling their kids this because most doctors surely aren?Tt.
How do we protect our young people? The answer is to tell them the truth, to tell them that ?osafe ***? as an unmarried teen or young adult simply doesn?Tt exis
And if you do wants to ***, let talk about "safe ***":
The available scientific evidence shows that condoms appear to reduce onê?Ts risk of contracting or transmitting only two STDs: HIV and gonorrhea (in men). The panel?Ts review of the
literature found:
*Consistent condom use reduces the yearly risk of contracting HIV from an infected ***ual partner via vaginal *** by
approximately 87percent.
*Consistent condom use also reduces the risk of gonorrhea
transmission from women to men.
*Consistent condom use may or may not reduce the risk of chlamydia transmission from women to men.
*Consistent condom use does not appear to reduce the risk of transmission of human papillomavirus (HPV) infection from men to women. Some evidence exists that condoms may reduce the risk of genital warts, but the results of studies to determine whether condoms reduce the risk of cervical dysplasia (?opre-cancer?) and cervical cancer in women are equivocal (some show protection while others do not).
*There was insufficient evidence to make statements about
condom effectiveness for any other STDs, including gonorrhea or chlamydia transmission from men to women and transmission of genital herpes, trichomoniasis, chancroid or syphilis.