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TOPIC FOR MEETING ON WED 29.11.06
PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP
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1.Thutrang82
2.bienkhongsong
3.tuanthienbk
4.Lazy_pinky (Có việc đột xuất nên xin nghỉ buổi tối nay)
5.Hang
6.bede_utc
7.thriving84
8.Herotran80
9.10102006
10.zxc92006
11.tvo22
12.sonnx10
13.moonbeam
14.dangbuchix
15.x_men10_1
16. lovemit (anhlam12682)
(Ai thừa hoặc thiếu tên trong danh sách thì bổ xung sửa chữa nhé)
DANH SÁCH SẼ CHỐT LẠI VÀO 5PM CHIỀU NAY
Buổi off 19.30 THỨ TƯ HÀNG TUẦN
*ĐỊA ĐIỂM OFF:
Quán coffee 11/76 Đường Trần Cung (đường vào viện E)
Quán này đối diện ngõ 1 tổ 50
*MỤC ĐÍCH CHÍNH:
+ Luyện phản xạ nói thông qua POPULAR TOPIC
+ Luyện đọc ĐOẠN HỘI THOẠI
+ Luyện phát âm chuẩn theo BĂNG ĐĨA.
+ Luyện nghe qua bài NGHE ĐIỀN TỪ
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+ Vốn từ vựng chưa nhiều
+ ........
*YÊU CẦU KHI THAM GIA:
1.Trước mỗi buổi off phải đăng kí. Nếu ai không đăng kí mà đi hoặc đi mà không đăng kí phạt 10k
2.Ai đến muộn sau 10ph mà không báo trước phạt 10k.Tự giác bỏ vào con lợn đặt ngay lối ra vào
3.Fee mỗi người khi tham gia là 25k/tháng
Được lazy_pinky sửa chữa / chuyển vào 09:25 ngày 29/11/2006

Bài tham khảo cho mọi người
Top 10 Tips For Enhancing That Lovin'' Feeling Between Parents and Their Children
Just like with any relationship, building a positive relationship between parent and child is one that requires work and effort to make it strong and successful. Parenting is a tough job, and maintaining close relationships and open communications helps to ensure parents and their children stay connected through all ages of their upbringing. Here are 10 simple tips for enhancing the bond between parent and child.
1) Say I Love You
Tell your child you love him every day -- no matter his age. Even on trying days or after a parent-child disagreement, when you don''t exactly "like your child" at that moment, it is more important than ever to express your love. A simple "I love you" goes a long way toward developing and then strengthening a relationship.
2) Teach Your Faith
Teach your child about your faith and beliefs. Tell him what you believe and why. Allow time for your child to ask questions and answer them honestly. Reinforce those teachings often.
) Establish A Special Name Or Code Word
Create a special name for your child that is positive and special or a secret code word that you can use between each other. Use the name as a simple reinforcement of your love. The code word can be established to have special meaning between your child and you that only you two understand. This code word can even be used to extract a child from an uncomfortable situation (such as a sleepover that is not going well) without causing undue embarrassment to the child.
4) Develop And Maintain A Special Bedtime Ritual
For younger children, reading a favorite bedtime book or telling stories is a ritual that will be remembered most likely throughout their life. Older children should not be neglected either. Once children start reading, have them read a page, chapter, or short book to you. Even most teenagers still enjoy the ritual of being told goodnight in a special way by a parent--even if they don''t act like it!
5) Let Your Children Help You
Parents sometimes inadvertently miss out on opportunities to forge closer relationships by not allowing their child to help them with various tasks and chores. Unloading groceries after going to the store is a good example of something that children of most ages can and should assist with. Choosing which shoes look better with your dress lets a child know you value her opinion. Of course, if you ask, be prepared to accept and live with the choice made!
6) Play With Your Children
The key is to really play with your children. Play with dolls, ball, make believe, checkers, sing songs, or whatever is fun and interesting. It doesn''t matter what you play, just enjoy each other! Let kids see your silly side. Older kids enjoy cards, chess, computer games, while younger ones will have fun playing about anything...as long as it involves you!
7) Eat Meals As A Family
You''ve heard this before, and it really is important! Eating together sets the stage for conversation and sharing. Turn the TV off, and don''t rush through a meal. When schedules permit, really talk and enjoy one another. It can become a quality time most remembered by young and old alike.
8) Seek Out One-On-One Opportunities Often
Some parents have special nights or "standing dates" with their children to create that one-on-one opportunity. Whether it is a walk around the neighborhood, a special trip to a playground, or just a movie night with just the two of you, it is important to celebrate each child individually. Although it is more of a challenge the more children in a family, it is really achievable! Think creatively and the opportunities created will be ones that you remember in the future.
9) Respect Their Choices
You don''t have to like their mismatched shirt and shorts or love how a child has placed pictures in his room. However, it is important to respect those choices. Children reach out for independence at a young age, and parents can help to foster those decision-making skills by being supportive and even looking the other way on occasion. After all, it really is okay if a child goes to daycare with a striped green shirt and pink shorts.
10) Make Them A Priority In Your Life
Your children need to know that you believe they are a priority in your life. Children can observe excessive stress and notice when they feel you are not paying them attention. Sometimes, part of being a parent is not worrying about the small stuff and enjoying your children. They grow up so fast, and every day is special. Take advantage of your precious time together while you have it!

Bài nữa này:
Study: Rules improve parent-child relationship
WASHINGTON (CNN) -- Teens whose parents have established rules in the house have better relationships with their parents and a substantially lower risk of smoking, drinking, and using illegal drugs than the typical teen, a new study shows.
The study was released Wednesday by The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse. The findings were part of its sixth annual national teen substance abuse survey.
The study evaluated a "hands-on" approach versus a "hands-off" approach, and found that only one in four teens lives with "hands-on" parents, but those teens are at one-quarter the risk for drug abuse than those living in "hands-off" households.
Teens living in "hands-on" households have parents who consistently take 10 or more of the following 12 actions:
? Monitor what their teens watch on TV
? Monitor what their teens do on the Internet
? Put restrictions on the CDs they buy
? Know where their teens are after school and on weekends
? Are told the truth by their teens about where they really are going
? Are "very aware" of their teens academic performance
? Impose a curfew
? Make clear they would be "extremely upset" if their teen used pot
? Eat dinner with their teens six or seven nights a week
? Turn off the TV during dinner
? Assign their teen regular chores, and
? Have an adult present when the teens return home from school
The survey found that despite conventional wisdom that many teens don''t want their parents to establish rules and expectations, 47 percent of teens living in "hands-on" households reported having an excellent relationship with their fathers and 57 percent reported and excellent relationship with their mothers.
Only 13 percent of teens with "hands-off" parents reported an excellent relationship with their fathers and 24 percent reported an excellent relationship with their mothers.
"Moms and dads should be parents to their children, not pals," said CASA''s president, former U.S. Secretary of Health, Education and Welfare Joseph A. Califano Jr. "Mothers and fathers who are parents rather than pals can greatly reduce the risk of their children smoking, drinking and using drugs."
For the sixth straight year, teens said drugs were their greatest concern. Teens said it is easier to buy marijuana than cigarettes. According to the survey, fewer teens said they expected to "never try" an illegal drug.
Asked what their biggest concern was, CASA reported, 31 percent of teens said, "drugs can ruin you life and cause harm." Seventeen percent said "I feel pressure to use drugs."
This year''s survey was also the first to ask teens about their proximity to Ecstasy. Of surveyed teens, 28 percent said they know a friend or classmate who has used the drug. Ten percent said they had been to a rave and said Ecstasy was available 70 percent of the time.
The survey looked at 1,000 American teens, 526 girls and 474 boys between the age of 12 and 17.

The Rights and Duties of both parties in the Parent-child relationship​

The Rights of Parents
(1) Parents have a right to be respected and obeyed by children
(2) Right to scold and rebuke:
It is instinctive obligation of parents to protect their children from physical and moral harm.
To this end they may resort to advice, rebuke, scolding, even hitting them.
(3) Right to be looked after.
Parents have looked after the children for decades.
So it is the duty of grown-up children to repay them by way of caring for them and looking to their physical and financial needs
(4) Right to be helped:
As parents grow old their energies also decline. So it is the duty of children to help their parents in any household chore in which they can help.
(5) Right to kind words/good behaviour:
Vhildren should be soft-spoken towards parents and show respect and kindness in their behavior towards parents.
Rights of Children
(1) Children have the right to be fed, clothed and protected till they grow up to adulthood.
Parents are duty bound to see that the childâ?Ts personality develops in all fields. So if the parents have to resort to strictness for the sake of disciplining the children and protecting them from intellectually, morally and religiously undesirable behaviour, children should not resent their strictness.
(2) Right to education.
Parents must not only provide for childrenâ?Ts education in schools and colleges but should also take personal interest in their studies, helping them if they can.
Parents should sacrifice their own comfort and social activities and must spare some time to take interest in childrenâ?Ts studies, especially when they are young.
(3) Right to love and affection:
Children have many psychological needs also. Small children need to be loved, caressed, kissed and hugged.
Some parents believe that being frank with children is not good from discipline point of view. This is wrong. Love and leniency can do much that fear and strictness cannot do. If leniency leads to rudeness on the part of children it should be mixed with strictness.
Over-protection and over-care are undesirable. Let the child grow up as a responsible person. Only provide them guidance.
(4) Right to be well provided (materially)
It is better for parents to leave their children well provided (financially) than to leave them in poverty. This means that parents should not spend all that they have on their own comforts and luxuries but must make provisions for childrenâ?Ts welfare after the parents die.

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