Hot event : SEC's 26th Online Meeting - FAMILY - pg 22

Some members suggest to re-discuss the topic of last week, but I decide to save it for a discussion in June. Instead we use the topic : " Indispensable factors *****cceed in work" for this week to change the atmosphere and bring new inspiration.
QUESTIONNAIRE FOR THE 7TH MEETING:
INDISPENSABLE FACTORS *****CCEED IN WORK
1. What is/was your job? If you are a student, what is/was your part-time job?
2. Do you satisfy with your job?
3. How do you define õ?osuccessful in workõ??
4. Smart/Proactive/Talented/Hard-working: which one is the most important factor *****cceed in work in your opinion?
5. Changing job often: advantages and disadvantages? How long should people change jobs?
6. What are your most important criteria to choose a job? (income/working environment/position/job descriptions/companyõ?Ts fame/location/promotion opportunityõ?Ư)
7. What type company do you want to join?
8. Please share your career dream with us.
9. In your experience and knowledge, which indispensable factors that lead people *****ccess?
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For reference:
Seven habits of highly effective peopleđ
(Best-seller book)
habit 1 - be proactiveđ
This is the ability to control one''''s environment, rather than have it control you, as is so often the case. Self determination, choice, and the power to decide response to stimulus, con***ions and circumstances
habit 2 - begin with the end in mindđ
Covey calls this the habit of personal leadership - leading oneself that is, towards what you consider your aims. By developing the habit of concentrating on relevant activities you will build a platform to avoid distractions and become more productive and successful.
habit 3 - put first things firstđ
Covey calls this the habit of personal management. This is about organising and implementing activities in line with the aims established in habit 2. Covey says that habit 2 is the first, or mental creation; habit 3 is the second, or physical creation. (See the section on time management.)
habit 4 - think win-winđ
Covey calls this the habit of interpersonal leadership, necessary because achievements are largely dependent on co-operative efforts with others. He says that win-win is based on the assumption that there is plenty for everyone, and that success follows a co-operative approach more naturally than the confrontation of win-or-lose.
habit 5 - seek first to understand and then to be understoodđ
One of the great maxims of the modern age. This is Covey''''s habit of communication, and it''''s extremely powerful. Covey helps to explain this in his simple analogy ''''diagnose before you prescribe''''. Simple and effective, and essential for developing and maintaining positive relationships in all aspects of life. (See the associated sections on Empathy, Transactional Analysis, and the Johari Window.)
habit 6 - synergizeđ
Covey says this is the habit of creative co-operation - the principle that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts, which implicitly lays down the challenge to see the good and potential in the other person''''s contribution.
habit 7 - sharpen the sawđ
This is the habit of self renewal, says Covey, and it necessarily surrounds all the other habits, enabling and encouraging them to happen and grow. Covey interprets the self into four parts: the spiritual, mental, physical and the social/emotional, which all need feeding and developing.
Stephen Covey
Được dirosemimi sửa chữa / chuyển vào 09:36 ngày 19/05/2006

Anhtrai76, Satori, NoNick, and FJX. I really want to have you guys joining our online conference. You are some of the most hard-core members of SEC. Having a chance to talk to each of you would be my great pleasure. So if you read this, please try to manage your time and join us next time.

Hi everyone,
Why dun we talk about despression and how to overcome it?
P/s: King, can you please give out a list of questions for discussion?

Sis Dimi
I''m wondering if our box has talked about the issue of academic dishonesty yet. There was a student caught cheating in my class today so I think it''s kinda interesting to discuss about this topic. These are some sample questions:
- Have you ever cheated in class?
- If not, why not? If so, how do you justify your action?
- Would you cheat because everyone else cheats?
- What are some methods people use to cheat?
- What can the school do to stop cheating?
- How cheating affects integrity of the school?
- Can cheating create bad influence to the student''s career?
Well, just some suggestions. You should change it cuz you write questions much better than I do.

Topic of SEC 8th online meeting: DEPRESSION
Depression can be a symptom of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and Fibromyalgia. It?Ts an extremely difficult illness to cope with ?" both for the sufferer, and their family and friends...
That?Ts why it?Ts important that everyone involved learns how to deal with it.
1. Have you ever been in depression? If yes, please tell us that situation and your feeling.
2. Do you know the reasons lead you to depression?
3. What do you usually do to overcome depression?
4. How often are you usually down?
5. What treatments do you advise us?
6. What do you think about this statement: ?o If you lose your spirit, you lose all ?o?
7. Is there any difference between Depression and Stress?
8. What do people might think about you: strong / feeble / neutral? Explain why. Do you think it is correct?

p.s: thanks King for your suggestion. We will discuss Cheating topic in the future.
Được dirosemimi sửa chữa / chuyển vào 22:07 ngày 26/05/2006

9th Online Meeting:
(June 2 , 10pm-11pm)
Your ideal girlfriend/boyfriend



Questions to discuss:
1. What are your criteria for ideal lover/ partner?
2. What is the most important criterion? Explain why?
3. How many percent do you think that you are an ideal lover?
4. What impress you the most in a lady/man?
5. Case study 1:
You meet you ideal one but unfortunately he/she is not available any more (married or belongs to another person), what will you do in that situation?
6. Case study 2:
Your boyfriend/girlfriend used to have a good memory with his/her ideal ex-one. How you feel in that case because you know that sometimes he/she has comparison between you and him/her? How does it affect your relationship?
7. Case study 3:
At the same time, there are 2 persons for you to choose:
1: Able to make you happy, and tend to please you all the time. Whenever you are with this person, you feel happy. You can absolutely believe in a happy marriage and happy life with this person.
2: Ideal person, possesses most of your criteria for dreaming one.
Which option you will go with? Happy or Ideal?

Be on time and well-prepared, bring your most excitement!

Được dirosemimi sửa chữa / chuyển vào 23:15 ngày 01/06/2006

This is the latest update of members who have registered for SEC online meeting. Please contact me if you find any information incorrect or missing.

Được dirosemimi sửa chữa / chuyển vào 22:56 ngày 24/07/2006

Hi friends,
Should our online conference start at 9pm?.

Topic of SEC 10th online meeting:
June 10, 2006 , Saturdạy
CHEATING in School and in Life
What is cheating at school?
-Someone copying from others work.
-Someone pretending that it is their own work.
-Marking answers correct when they are wrong.
-Changing scores.
-Not owning up to something.
Why cheat?
-So that you don''t look ''dumb''
-To get a higher grade.
-So that you don''t get into trouble
-To get out of trouble.
A recent report indicates that cheating happens in most schools. The students, surveyed by Who''s Who Among American High School Students, had at least a B average in their subjects. Eighty percent said that cheating was common at their schools, and 78 percent admitted that they themselves cheated.
How do these students cheat? Here is a breakdown:
* 67 percent have copied another student''s homework;
* 40 percent have cheated on a test or a quiz;
* 25 percent have used plot summaries to avoid reading an assigned book.
Most of the admitted cheaters deny that pressure from other students causes their actions. Rather, they seem not to want to spend more time on homework. Over half study seven hours or less a week.
QUESTIONNAIRE:
1. Have you ever cheated in class?
2. If not, why not? If so, how do you justify your action?
3. Would you cheat because everyone else cheats?
4. Please share with us your opinions when you see people cheating.
5. What are some methods people usually use to cheat?
6. Could you advise the ways that schools do to stop cheating?
7. How cheating affects integrity/ fairness/ quality of schools?
8. Can cheating negatively affect students?T honesty and personality?
9. It has been suggested that these people cheating in school may go on cheating after graduation--on their job applications, expense accounts, or income taxes. How do you think of this?
p.s: to Aquarain and other members: King will decide the starting time of our meeting. King , please announce formally the date and time of our online meeting this week again. Also, pls decide the starting time of SEC online meetings.

We will start our 10th Online Voice Conference at 9:45PM on Saturday, June 10. The meeting is right after the England vs. Paraguay match so you can come early to discuss the match if you want to. In case you haven''t already known, this meeting will also feature extraordinary performances of some SEC singers for the first time ever. Stick around and you''ll find out who these singers are. I''m giving a hint: they are popular SEC members