how 2 express ur love with ur partner?

i have an australian boyfriend, so, of course, we have 2 communicate with each other in English... to be honest, sometimes, it sucks... sometimes he uses 2 many slangs that i cannot understand but i don''t want 2 ask the meaning...
so you guys have any tips 4 me??? thankx in advance

When you were born, you were crying while everyone 'round u was smiling
Live your life so that when you died, you are the only one who was smiling while everyone 'round u was crying.

Aussie blokes are either terribly -beer-gutsy- and immature/silly or terribly ***y XD *drools*
I dont think there is a ''general trend'' of what to do and what to say in relationships, that''s what makes different relationships honest, true and unique. However, if you need anyhelp on Australian slangs, I''d be glad to help. My vocab isn''t extensive, but I''ll try my best. There are also a few sites on the net to assist you at that too.
Good luck, and all the best to your future and his. =)
Sil.
"Gomen nasai....demo..A****erui Sayuri-san.."

thankx 4 replying... i think you are just the one i need 2 ask... yeah... i need some Aussie slangs... pls tell me... i''m looking 4ward 2 your reply...
have a nice day!
When you were born, you were crying while everyone 'round u was smiling
Live your life so that when you died, you are the only one who was smiling while everyone 'round u was crying.

http://www.geocities.com/SouthBeach/Breakers/8092/ozslang.htm
Here is an useful websit eto look at meanwhile. =)
"Gomen nasai....demo..A****erui Sayuri-san.."

-->Sil : Aussie blokes are either terribly -beer-gutsy- and immature/silly or terribly ***y XD *drools*
Sil, they''''re not "immature".And honestly, they''''re cool to hang out with! =p
Được robot2051 sửa chữa / chuyển vào 18:40 ngày 12/12/2003

Hi Badper,
As Sil has helped you with the "verbal" part, here''s some suggestion for the "nonverbal" communication.
Give Him the Eye
Harvard psychologist Zick Rubin set out to see if he could measure love scientifically and achieved it by recording the amount of time lovers spent staring at each other. He discovered that couples who are deeply in love look at each other 75 percent of the time when talking and are slower to look away when someone else dares to intrude. In normal conversation, people look at each other between 30-60 percent of the time. The significance of what''s now known as Rubin''s Scale is obvious: It''s possible to tell how "in love" people are by measuring the amount of time they spend gazing adoringly. Some psychologists still use it during counseling to work out how much affection couples feel for each other. It also happens to be remarkably handy information if you want to make someone fall in love with you. Here''s how it works: If you look at someone you like 75 percent of the time when they''re talking to you, you trick their brain. The brain knows the last time that someone looked at them that long and often, it meant they were in love. So it thinks OK, I''m obviously in love with this person as well, and starts to release phenylethylamine (PEA). PEA is a chemical cousin to amphetamines and is secreted by the nervous system when we first fall in love. PEA is what makes our palms sweat, our tummies flip over, and our hearts race. The more PEA the person you want has pumping through the bloodstream, the more likely he is to fall in love with you. While you can''t honestly force someone to adore you if he''s not remotely interested (they won''t let you look into their eyes for that long, for a start!), it is entirely possible to kick-start the production of PEA using this technique. Try it. I think you''ll be pretty impressed with the results. Give someone the sensation of feeling in love whenever he''s with you, and it''s not such a huge leap of logic for him to finally decide that he is!


Don''t Look Away
There was another crucial finding from Rubin''s research: The couples took longer to look away when someone else joined the conversation. Again, if you do this to someone who''s not in love with you (yet), you trick his brain into thinking he is, and even more PEA floods into his bloodstream. Relationships expert Leil Lownes calls this technique making "toffee eyes." Simply lock eyes with the person you like and keep them there, even when he has finished talking or someone else joins the conversation. When you eventually do drag your eyes away (three or four seconds later), do it slowly and reluctantly -- as though they''re attached by warm toffee. This technique may not sound terribly inspired but, believe me, if done properly it can literally take your breath away. If you''re too shy to gaze openly, skip the toffee and think bouncing ball. Look away and at the other person who''s joined the conversation, but every time they finish a sentence, let your eyes bounce back to the person you''re interested in. This is a checking gesture -- you''re checking his reaction to what the speaker is saying -- and lets him know you''re more interested in him than the other person.

geezzz .. if you dont understand something, ask! Simple and effective. After a while, you''ll learn all those slangs.
Nguyện mỗi người có một niềm vui!

hey you guys...
thankx so much... i was deeply moved...
your help are so useful... i think my relationship with my boy will be better and better...
if you guys have any other tips, pls don''t forget to post them here... ok? wish you all the best...
When you were born, you were crying while everyone 'round u was smiling
Live your life so that when you died, you are the only one who was smiling while everyone 'round u was crying.

Showing That You Really Love and Cherish Someone
â 1995, Dick Wulf, MSW, Colorado Springs, CO
People can show their love in many ways. People do things for and with one another. "Doing" can communicate love, but it does not build much intimacy.
It is by "being" that people open themselves for intimacy. If a married couple only "does" together, their relationship can stay shallow. This is sufficient for some people. But most of us want to "be together" in ad***ion to "doing together". You can "do things" with just about anybody, so it is not normally a sign of closest love.
It is this "being together" that is addressed here.
SHOWING YOU UNDERSTAND
A person really wants to be understood (known) by those with whom he or she is supposed to be intimate (spouse, friend, etc.). Understanding is the beginning of really caring about another person.
At the safest level of personal risk, you care by trying to understand a person''s reality - this is what he or she is going through. This is an intellectual acknowledgment and, unfortunately, is as far as many relationships go.
EXAMPLES
"You''ve had a rough day." (said without emotion in your voice)
"You are a person who likes a regular dose of fun."
"This is good stew."
"Did you write that letter to your mother?"
"Are you too sick to go to church?"
At a deeper level of risk and caring, you work at understanding and accepting a person''s thoughts about his or her reality.
EXAMPLES
"The day didn''t go the way you wanted, did it?"
"For you, life is not worth living if it doesn''t have a regular dose of fun."
"This is good stew. Did you make it today because the weather turned cold?"
"What have you been thinking about that letter you want to write to your mother?"
"You don''t think you should go to church when you''re not feeling well, so I assume you are staying home. Is that right?"
At the deepest level, the level where loneliness begins to go away for the other person, you work at understanding and accepting a person''s feelings about his or her reality.
EXAMPLES
"Today didn''t go the way you wanted, did it? I''ll bet it''s been a rough one. You look like you''re feeling discouraged. Are you?"
"If you don''t have a regular dose of fun, you feel restless and depressed, don''t you?"
"Did you enjoy making this stew?"
"Are you feeling afraid to write that letter to your mother?"
"You''re feeling pretty miserable. Would going to church help or make you more uncomfortable?"
SHOWING YOU CARE
A person most knows that you really and truly care when you respond personally, and this is best done with your emotions. (Your thoughts are usually experienced as less personal than your emotions.) If a person really cares, he or she will have an emotional reaction to another''s situation.
People too often pass one another and one asks, "How''s it going?" The other replies, "So, so." And then, instead of screeching to a halt and asking what is happening, the first person walks on. No interest in the person''s reality, no understanding of how that person considers (thinks and feels about) his situation, no understanding of or concern for how that person is responding emotionally to (feels about) his situation, and certainly no internal emotion toward that other person - because there is no real caring for that other person.
EXAMPLES
"I wish you had had a better day!" (With emotion in the voice and/or emotion on the face and/or an arm around the person.)
"I would dearly like to see you having more fun and enjoying life more."
"I''m really happy that you enjoyed making this stew so much."
"I am kind of afraid for you - that you won''t get the response you need from writing a letter to your mother."
"I would like to see you stay home from church and take care of yourself."

i experienced it with my ex-es b4..so i could understand ya in some way....but verbal communication isnt counted in love too much since u guys really belong to each other..various of ways for ya to express it out with ur passionate love to him.....based on ur writting i guess u properly can communicate with him at least ..its juz "sometimes" sucks..cuz ur accent might be hard for him to understand or vice versa...dunt b shy, juz ask ur boy again , he could correct your english well....
wish u guys all da best with love...
F00l a K!ss
plz gimme 5 more yrs to be feminines and gentles.