How to find your indispensable half ???

Morning guys,
Wish all of you guys a pleasant day. Posting this topic here with the hope to get more discussive ideas.
It''s true that when you''re at the age of 20 you start looking for your half. Issue is how to get the right one that makes you and your self feel happy for the rest of your life? Personally I have been struggling in that. I''ve got one broken up so I am on my way for it. For both sides men and women, we''ve gotta be more courageous to speak up and approach your target gently, enthusiastically, frankly and truely. The orther side who''s is being approached, if you have the feeling of love or like to the approaching one, please, please don''t hestitate or be reluctant to him/her. Let''s live the idea of love and make it happen. Too much consideration or hestitation will destroy the flame of hope. Of course, agree we need to be careful, but don''t be over careful this is the other extreme.
Actually, I''m still on my way, and I can not tell you guys I have much experience to address what is right or wrong, emotion, feeling, they are some things so relative to address tangibly. So, hopefully I can get some of your ideas on this forum for round table discussion.
With kind regards,
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