How to protect yourself from falling in love...??

Guys.. we are talkin a lot about love.. what a miracle it is... and people are almost going crazy about love... this and that!!You actually cannot control your heart when it wants to fall for someone.
But what im wondering is how u can protect yourself from falling in love with somebody, kind of rule your heart the way u want it to be!!! have you got any idea at all???

You laugh at me because I'm different, I laugh at you because you're all the same.


~ Princess of the Cloud ~

Dear cuncon_xinh,
Love is a very powerful thing that often gets under-rated, but it also gets over-rated in my opinion..
If you can -control- your heart, and stop yourself from falling inlove then that is NOT love. Not real and true love anyway. In that case I call it infactuation.
Don't stop yourself from falling inlove..build yourself a wall if you must to protect your fragile heart..but cannot and will not win over love. The only reason why two people should not be together is if either of them doesn't love the other.
Love hurts, love stinks and love is bitter sure. But they have a saying "It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all".
Think about it..and make your decisions wisely.
Love doesn't come often in one's life..so go for it.
- Take care,
Sil.

Doi la bien kho..

Don't try to protect yourself from falling in love. If you do, I'm sure that you'll fail.

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow

protecting yourself from falling in love ?
* So, do you mean Love can harm you ?
The ONLY rule in love theory is THERE'S NO RULE.
If there's one another, it must be : LOVE IS ILLOGICAL
SYD
Được Syd sửa chữa / chuyển vào 12:39 ngày 17/06/2003

Hey pretty Cuncon,
Do not bother thinking of ways to protect yourself from falling in love. If he is not the right one, your resistance will be definitely "strong" enough to keep you from falling
If he is Mr Right, you obviously will fall, want it or not
"Nguyện anh CXR bỏ cái motto đi"

hehhe,what a stupid question ! I think you should learn how to protect yourself when you're already in love with someone ( know wat i mean right ? ) instead of doing that dump thing. It never works out girl.
Well, I just got an idea about wat u said. Is that about creating a border line between you and him, for example, you already like a guy but you dont want that emotional to go too far because you're still young, and you need to do some certain things before making yourself comfortable in love ? If it is, such a good question though.

It's unbelievable we can be together !

That's it, Scrops. I guess it's exactly what cuncon_xinh wants us to discuss. (or am I wrong?) hehe I pride myself on the ability to control my emotions. Well, don't ask me how, it's really hard to use words to say I'm just a normal girl, sometimes I feel like somebody, a classmate or so, but ... I never let it go too far... If I'm not mistaken, the last time I like a boy was 2 years ago
As we go on, we remember all the times we had together
As our lives change, come whatever
We will still be FRIENDS FOREVER

Well, I think she means that.
I am now the one who is trying to keep my emotion, not letting it go to far. It is simply because I want to understand what is happening inside myself, to know exactly what kind of emotion that I am having, as far as 6 is concerned, attraction or love.
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Pursuing the protection from being fallen in love would mean to me that you stop being a human. Impossible!
Hasta La Vista

Really! But maybe you misunderstand me. Do you think it is good if emotion grows to fast, may it be certain?. I still take care of every movement of the girl I like, but love takes time, that's what I mean.
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