IF...

Have you ever thought of the question "How many ones would cry for me if I suddenly died?".
Is this question stupid? I thought of the quesstion after attending a funeral. The man died in his forties, too young, in an accident. He was a careful rider in fact, but he was hit by a drunk guy and they both were gone. You see, we may die no matter how much we don''t want to.
Then how many ones would cry for you if you suddenly died? They could be your relative and that would be the last time they cry for you. How many times do you think you have made them smile happily, compared to the time you made them cry? They could be your close friends, but do you think that you have friends that are close enough to cry for you? They could be your sweatheart, but dude, would you cry for her if she died, or you keep being cool?
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Life is going on and noone may know what''s happening tomorrow. It can be great, but what if it is unexpectedly miserable and it''s better if one is prepared for it. There''s no way we can think of it without the Ifs, so let your Ifs go here.

I think it''s really a stupid question.
I havent asked myself about that until I read this topic. But I will never ask ''coz I find it''s so silly deed.
Okie, the deaths can happen immediately, whenever, wherever we cant doubt. But dont be that you often think about the deaths and you become afraid of the deaths.
Be happy with all people you love, show them your love, smile with them. Give. And you will receive what you wish. And one day, unfortunately you die, there will be some people cry and pray you for the best things.
The people always think about the deaths are the people have pessimistic view of life. Haha, i''m a optimistic girl. I think it neednt to think about what is not real until it happens. Live with the present, dont worry. Hihi, good luck and happy!

You guys seem to be so much afraid of death huh? There''s only one reply for the 1st IF which mentions it as "stupid question"
Hope to hear more from you with this one:
If you can choose something to do during the rest of your life, what will it be?

It''s not a stupid question. But it''s a natural reaction for one to be afraid of death. Ultimately it is something unevitable and the natural human reaction to this (Yes, we are all human at some point) is of something hopeless. There is nothing one can do to stop, or alter this outcome. One has two choices. One, to be comfortable with the idea of dying, realising it''s just something that happens. Two, be afraid of it and goes out of one''s way to stall it.
How many would cry at one''s funeral? That''s..silly.
It matters more how many smiles when one lives.

well, I think when somebody ask that question, they just want to know about the value of life.... But the value of life doesnot always mean the tears dropped at the funeral.. it depends on each person. If someone ask that question to me, I just answer "donot care", I just want to live a life of no regrets. that''''s all.
Được charisma sửa chữa / chuyển vào 13:18 ngày 12/06/2004