LOVE FIRST OR CAREER FIRST ????

Nowaday, the young people had tendency love first, we saw a lot of young couple love, go overnight when they was teenager (some about 13,14). And in the university had more freedom, this developed more.
But some of people do not think like that, they send much time studying to get good jobs before think of love and marriage. And when they become oldder, they care about lovê?~s partner . Especialy, this put woman at a disadvantage. Woman at this age is difficult to chose a good prince to match with their dream.

What do you think about this question ? And which one should you get first between love and career ?

Why not at the same time?
Though your career requires much of your time, please remember that love also needs that much of time.
If you can arrange your time and your everyday life well, love and career will be equal. And you''ll be happier than when you can only choose one.
I think it''s not good to love too soon, but once the real love comes, we should accept it, but still care about other things that we must do, like career.
Hih, you mention the prince of a woman''s dream... I think that in our lives sometimes we can''t have what or who we wanna have... And some ppl waste their youths just to wait for the "dreaming prince" to come. Of course marrying for love is better, but there should be other options...
Honey is sweet...
Coffee is bitter...
Love is bittersweet...

Why not at the same time?
Though your career requires much of your time, please remember that love also needs that much of time.
If you can arrange your time and your everyday life well, love and career will be equal. And you''ll be happier than when you can only choose one.
I think it''s not good to love too soon, but once the real love comes, we should accept it, but still care about other things that we must do, like career.
Hih, you mention the prince of a woman''s dream... I think that in our lives sometimes we can''t have what or who we wanna have... And some ppl waste their youths just to wait for the "dreaming prince" to come. Of course marrying for love is better, but there should be other options...
Honey is sweet...
Coffee is bitter...
Love is bittersweet...

In my opinion, I think love first is better because we have more experience in love, have more time to know clearly about lover . And when we choice the partner of our life, it is easier. Because the wife or husband is important, it decide you happy or unhappy. It''s terrible when you come back home and meet your partner who you did not like.
To Be Or Not To Be

In my opinion, I think love first is better because we have more experience in love, have more time to know clearly about lover . And when we choice the partner of our life, it is easier. Because the wife or husband is important, it decide you happy or unhappy. It''s terrible when you come back home and meet your partner who you did not like.
To Be Or Not To Be

I have read the very meaningful slogan of one brand :"Life is long enough to find the right person" I dont think that we have to choose between love and career. Love and marriage is not the product or the service that we have choice or not. They go to your heart lightly at the time you cannot notice. And, studying for get the good career or improve yourself is the thing that you always do, no matter you have girlfriend or not.

Hix, I tend to study first... . Is it not fair as I''m a lady?
Whether we choose love or career, we have to last it. I hate something so-called ''instant''. Because we are young and we have time... ,step by step, we will have all. Be patient! Welcome anything...knocks on my door first, he he he

Just my personal thoughts:
I can plan my academic and career life in about 5 to 10 years'' time, but I cannot plan when my heart will fall in love. So I just focus on studying now but still keep an awareness that I can fall in love any time, if she''s the right person.

hi guys
for me, there are times when it might be a little hard to have both a great career and a long-lasting love.
This case is more obvious when the two have to live apart for a long long time to fulfil their job self-satisfaction, for eg, one lives in sg, the other works in the us, etc.
If this is your issue, what are you going to do?
cheers
richy

Maybe love first is better. I am heard that when two people love each other, they aren''t seeing each other, but seeing the way they will go. I dream about the love where i and my partner can plan and go in the same way !!!