Report for Weekly Online Meeting ( 22nd OnSpeak, Oct 27th, pg 11)

To group 2 :Vycam,letmebe and PhanThanhHien: I''m so sorry about your group with 3 boys...It was my fault because I thought PhanThanhhien is a girl ( sorry to P.T.Hien ) and I cut letmebe''s sister on group 2 also but she disappeared...I missed the name...next time ''ll try to make equal between boys and girls...
This online meeting, most of member showed up on time....
so we''re doing great ...
To meaningless: being the host is everyone''s turn..If you don''t have time to write a report please make it short or asking your group to work out..
Our group: kany,gatihon,silly boy,.the meeting took nearly 2 hours with a lot of fun.
see you guys next week...

Hi all,
I am happy to read the reports of 3 groups this 4th online meeting You guys did great job !
I know that the topic of movie is not so good, I will try to think out better topics for our coming meetings.
BTW, If you have any suggestions of topics, please send them to mailbox of SEC: secmods@yahoo.com. Many thanks.
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Lần này lực lượng các nhóm không được đồng đều lắm Thy nhỉ, tội nghiệp nhóm của Vi_cam, hihi...2 chàng ngồi tâm sự với nhau cũng buồn. ( nếu cho ông Gà chen vô nói nhảm chắc vui hơn liền , ông Gà hen)
Kany, King67, Vi_cam, mynuong: well-done, you''re so cool !
Thy ơi, sau này sau mỗi buổi meeting, Thy tổng kết vài dòng về số thành viên có mặt, ai đến sớm, đến trể, nêu vài cái tên cho vui....để mọi người có cái nhìn toàn diện hơn. Ok?
Ngoài ra, Dimi nghĩ các host sau này ráng mang giấy bút ra ghi chú lại để tiện cho việc tường thuật hơn.
*****m up, well-done all ! keep going on !
Happy holidays!

Chuyện tường thuật thì tui nghĩ là ai thích hay hứng thì làm (coi đó là dịp pratice writting cũng tốt.) Thứ sáu rùi tui ngủ quên nên hổng chat với bà con được (hịc...đi mần bị xếp hối quá nên mần gần chết, về nhà oải quá.)
I also like Chinese Kung-Fu movies and novels by Kim Dung. Movies which are transformed from Musical (a kind of stage work which is similar to opera) are my favourist too, namely, The phantom of the opera, My fair lady, Chicago, Perhaps love ( with Châu Tấn, Trương Học Hữu and directed by Chicago ''s director). My ultimate favourist ones are Casablanca and Gone with the wind.

I just have one question for Dimi, have you seen Daisy? I bet yes since I see Daisies everywhere in your blogs and your posts here. You once told us why you loved roses, now I am kindly asking you to tell us why roses are replaced by daisies.
To Everyone: Has anybody seen "Dandelion"?

Responding to the bro Sillyboy''s question:
It''s so obvious that we want to marry the ones who love us, whether we are male or female. However, that does not mean you are guaranteed to have a happy marriage if you love each other. For example, my sister and her husbands loved each other for 7 years before they got married. They were the ideal couple, "trai tai gai sac." But now, their family is very unpleasant. Even though they still love each other very much, they are not happy at all with their marriage life.
I hope I answered your question. I won''t get married to someone just for love. There are many other important factors like social status, family opinion, lifestyle compatibility. I guess after going through a heart-broken relationship, I''m not very realistic in love anymore.

Should we marry to a person we love or a person who love us? Should we consider other factors such as money, fame and family background? Yes and No.
When a couple are in love and have all ''''nessessary con***ions'''' it doesn''''t guarantee a happy marriage. When people say ''''I love you'''' it is only valid at that moment. How about a month later, a year later or throughout your whole life? Love is very vunerable. I hope you won''''t be very innocent because we are human. And you know how complicated a human being is.
From perspective of mechanical engineering, no mater how ''''safe'''' and strong a structure appears, a small crack í able to destroy the whole structủe. It is the crack tranmission phenomenon or ''''butterfly effect''''. It applies for a relationship too.
You ''''ve got a perfect husband, handsome, gentle, rich, famous and he perfectly loves you. To me it doesn''''t mean anything to guarantee a happy marriage. It was real for my old friend ''''s case. They were in love for 6 years during oversea study in Russia. They married and had a son. After more than 20 years of hardworking, they seem have everything: morney and social status (are they not what everybody wants). Yet they divorved.
Now my old friend is half death and half dying.What can she do when she is a 50 years old woman? Do social works to pretend to be a kind lady? She has already spent her 50 years. ''''Time is money'''', ''''you spent time to get money. But could you exhange money back for time, my sister? Remember '' Money is not time'' You lived a stupid life, I have to say. '''' Oh, I am talking about something out of the topic. I guess I should stop here.
(enjoy coffee now to calm down)
Được tao_lao sửa chữa / chuyển vào 08:33 ngày 01/05/2006

To be honest, I love both: rose and daisy. I always love rose, especially pink, and I sometimes receive roses as presents. On the other hand, no one gives me daisies but I love daisies for its purity, grace, and somewhat simplicity. I can''''t explain exactly the reason why I love daisies lately. It might be the mood and feeling.
Yeah, I must admit that you''''re right . I saw Daisy already. I like that film as I can see lots of daisies there and people love daisies like me. Actually, there are many reasons making Daisy a good worth-seeing film. Spending time to see it, you''''ll know.
Is "Dandelion" an interesting film? I guess you love Dandelion, right?
Dandelion''''s trailer for U: http://www.dandelionthemovie.com/high.html
(are you talking about this film?)
and...a picture:

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Được dirosemimi sửa chữa / chuyển vào 23:50 ngày 01/05/2006

5th ONLINE MEETING:
TOPIC: How do you consider an ideal life and what will you do to achieve it?
Sáng tui dậy sớm nghe nhạc,nhảy vô ''''phát biểu cảm nghĩ'''' về buổi online meeting tối qua . Còn phần tường thuật xin để King, vì tui cũng hổng nhớ được nhiều (chắc tại già rùi quá).
I was impressed on how wise the youngers are. When being asked difficult questions such as ''''choose between career and love'''', ''''who is the most important person in your life?'''', ''''how do you see you in the next 5 years'''', they could answer very fast ( our group members were well-prepared for the meeting, you see). Frankly speaking, I couldn''''t answer any of those question properly. I was ''''ú ớ, tounge-tied'''', didn''''t know what to say. All of our members value family life and work very hard for career (it sounds very Vietnamese accually).
Both are important. So please dun ask which one is more valuable. That makes people headache. Real life is less extreme than movie. You have to choose between love or career, love or family, mother or father (trong hai con đường nhà ngươi phải chọn một). It just exists popularly in Korean movies. So try to love your family and take good care your career.
Let me calculate their value and you will see how imporant they are. As I told our group members, you sleep 8 hours and work 8 hours a day. You should try very hard to get a person whom you are happy to sleep with and get a job which you enjoy to dtherwise your life is hell. Spend 16 hours a day unhappily, you lose 2/3 of your life.
Now let ''''s take a look how we spend the rest of a day: 2 hours of transportation, 1.5 hours? for eating, 1 hour? for showering, (****ting as well). Some people work very hard to earn money to do what? Build a house and a new bathroom (for nice sleeping , good showering). Or buy a expensive and comfortable car to enjoy good transportation, buy good food and clothes? And now you see how trivial they are (no matter how big it is , it is less than 1/3 of your life, rite?). Some people aim for fame, they want others respecte them. But stop and think. How long and often you meet people a day? How long do you enjoy such respected behaviors?
Family is even more imporatant than it seems. If you marry a good wife, she will feed you good foods (like our cheif Ms. Di). You enjoy the whold time of your stay at home (more than just 8 hours of sleeping,rite?): good talks and nice cares endlessly.
In one day my friend was very unhappy at work. Then I told him, ''''you got everything.'''' I explained to him that he got a very kind fiancee (she is really a family person,an ideal-wife-to-be). He enjoys his time at home and all the things I mentioned above, work is nothing (just 1 /3 of your life, do you agree?) . A good future is waiting for him. I told him I did struggle very hard just to be like him: find a good girl for my life. But it is not easy. Most of the girls nowsdays dun know what a family mean, thay dun know how to cook (with a mind set that she is well-educated, she gets everyhing, it is stupid thinking accually).
Thui,nhắc tới thấy bi kịch quá. Tui đi uống trà tiếp.
Được dirosemimi sửa chữa / chuyển vào 14:03 ngày 06/05/2006

Once again, my special thank to GaTiHon for assigning a good group for me again. Not only we have a full group, it is also nicely diverse. We have 3 guys and 2 ladies in our group: an entertainer: TaoLao, a scholar: MyNuong, an enthusiast: ColdButCool, a nobleman: Kany, and a sloppy host: me.
In my own experience, this is the best discussion we have had so far. The questions are good, the members are well-prepared (except for bro Tao_Lao). There are many laughters in the atmosphere that create a close connection between each member. This meeting is indeed really fun
This time I will not be greedy and write the report all by myself. Every members in my group will have a chance to write. Instead of writing duplicate reports, each person will write about another member. This is how it goes:
TaoLao writes about himself (''cuz no one understood what he said) No hard feeling bro
King writes about MyNuong
My Nuong writes about Kany
Kany writes about ColdButCool
ColdButCool writes about King
Bro TaoLao already wrote a great report about himself. I will go next.
My Nuong is a 21-year-old lady from SaiGon who is currently studying at Educational University. Raising from a tra***ional and religious family, she is a well-behaved person with a very kind heart. My Nuong''s idea of happiness is very simple: sharing time with family, hanging out with friends, and being a teacher. Her dream is to have a happy family in the future, a good husband with some beautiful children. The most important person in her life is her mom, who sets a good example for My Nuong to follow. Even though My Nuong values a family relationship, right now she is concentrating on her career to achieve her goal of becoming a teacher. So guess what guys? She''s still available.
Please try to write as much as you can about the other person. If you don''t remember something, msg me on Yahoo and I''ll try my best to help you.
King

okie guys, it''''s my turn to talk about KING - our host last night conversation
Although I don''''t know his face and never meet him before in real life, just listen his voice, I think he''''s a cool man, a good host with his tatent in leading .. oh pls, dont rise ur nose huh, King
King is younger than me 1 age and keep studying MBA of accountant department. right, K ? and he will finish his grade in next year.
He has many objectives to do, to get such as : finding a good job after graduated,applying in a great company, having a kind girlfriend, and having a happy family - a full-love and peace place when he comes back after working hard.
In the past, he thought his wife was the whom he considered the most important person in his life because she would be a woman who spends with him the rest of life.
And then, he also think about his dad and mum
But, everything around us always changes and we do too.
Until now, after passing many experiences, he thinks that his mom is really the most important to him. Just only her, the woman who never leaves him alone and always loves him uncon***ionally.
That''''s a good man, isn''t it ?
okie guy. done ! phew !
dont laugh if it is not alike as u expect !
many thanks for ur pay attention
and I''''m looking forward to ur feedback, guy !
Được coldbutcool sửa chữa / chuyển vào 13:32 ngày 06/05/2006