SEC ANTI-LOVE CLUB. Home of the love-haters

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- Your girlfriend dumped you?
- Your boyfriend cheated on you?
- Are you being rejected by someone you are crazy to?
If so, you have come to the right place. This is the home for love-haters, where we can express our deepest condemnation to love and discuss why love sucks.

What is love?
Love is such a general term that 100 person would have 100 different answers of what love is. Here is my definition for love. Love is a relationship that consists of these elements: affection, sacrifice, respect, understanding, and uncon***ional acceptance. This is the relationship we can find between a parent and a child, and sometimes close friends; but NOT "couple love."

"Couple love" is not true love, because it has too much "buiness" in it . Everything about ?ocouple lovê? is fairness: If you do something for me, then I do it back to you. If you don"t, then C Ya.
- You did something terrible and will your lover forgives you? HECK NOT.
- Your pretty face got burn and became ugly, do you expect your boyfriend still loves you? YOU WISH.
- You do many things that your lover doesn"t like. Will she still accept how you are and spend the rest of her life with you? NOT A CHANCE.

Folks, I"m telling you, true love does NOT exist in ?ocouple lovê?. We falsely believe there is love in "couple love" since we are forced to believe it. We have been brainwashed by all the love songs, romance novels, and those Cinderella and prince charming fairy tales.

Just think of this situation. There they are, Adam and Eva, the first male and female existing in this world. What do you expect they would do to each other? Would they hug and cuddle and say, "I love you more than anything on this world." Heck no, realistically they would fight each other to dead for that apple because they are hungry. There would be no love between Adam and Eva because there is no one telling them they suppose to love each other.

We are made to believe there is true love in ?ocouple lovê? by the society just like how they make us to think being naked in the public is a sin. It is a predefined term, a propaganda. My definition for ?ocouple lovê? is : fantasy, love propaganda, and maybe some crazy desire of our hormones.

For those who disagree with me and believe there is such thing as ?olove conquers all? or ?olove is eternal?, try to remember what love brought to you. Solemn, despair, failure, disappointment, heartbrokening? Am I right?

So, I urge you, raise your voice and boycott love. It is the biggest lie ever known to humankind.

NEVER BE HEARTBROKEN AGAIN!​

You are absolutely right, King. Love is just a falsehood that life is cramming on us, bam bam bam, "love is eternal", "love is real", but how real love is anyway? Can you see it, can you touch it? Heck NO.
Did your lover call you when he/she left you? I bet NO.
Did your lover even care when he/she say "goodbye" to you? YEAH RIGHT

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I think I''ll go
Anti-Love,
Really, who
needs It?
Butterflies
in the Tummy
and Hearts
skipping Beats...
That can''t be SAFE
Được TrnHo sửa chữa / chuyển vào 15:16 ngày 29/10/2006

We can see on the TV or movies, they say so many beautiful words about love...But I think it is just a dream for them. In reality, I do not think that we can have that kind of love.
I do not know that I am a love-hater, I just do not believe that does real love exist in this world

In a relationship, if it''s too hurt to stay then I think the best way is to let it go. Letting go is hurtful, but it''s better to be hurtful now than be moanful later on. So, I dedicated this song to anybody who is going through tough times like this song. Yes, I don''t wanna cry.
I Don''t Wanna Cry - Mariah Carey
Once again we sit in silence
After all is said and done
Only emptiness inside us
Baby, look what we''ve become
We can make a million promises
But we still won''t change
It isn''t right to stay together
When you only bring each other pain
Chorus:
I don''t wanna cry
Don''t wanna cry
Nothing in the world
Could take us back
To where we used to be
Though I''ve given you my heart and soul
I must find a way of letting go''
Cause baby, I don''t wanna cry
Too far apart to bridge the distance
But something keeps us hanging on and on
Pretending not to know the difference
Denying what we had is gone
Every moment we''re together
It''s just breaking me down
I know we swore it was forever
But it hurts too much to stay around
Chorus
All the magic''s gone
There''s just a shadow of a memory
Something just went wrong
We can''t go on make- believing
Chorus
If you wanna watch the song. Click on this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XHIJDYVDXQ4

life''s beautiful!!! gotta balance ur love life and career as well as family. U dont have to shout out loud or seek for love. Make urself better everyday then something wonderful will happen.... Be HAPPY!!!

yeuanh_amtham chỉ là love you in silence thì có được coi là member trong hội này không vậy

Đúng là mình cũng đã từng đi trên con đường quen thuộc đó. Và rồi hôm nay, chính em đã rẽ qua con đường xa lạ để tránh hình bóng đó...Nhưng sao em vẫn mong chờ nhìn thấy anh, dù chỉ là chập chờn thấy được ánh nắng chiếu qua bờ vai anh...Nhưng...."em vẫn sống tốt trong-thế-giới-không-anh" (thank em Zung).

chòi oi, thiệt tình luôn, đang bùn hiu vì nhớ người iu mà vào đây đọc bài mí người nì mà muốn ôm chai gượu ga langcang ngồi ghie luôn, thiệt tình luôn cứ tưởng chỉ có mình mình mới như vậy chứ ai ngờ cũng nhiều người như vậy quá chứ, ayda chán ghê luôn

Everything is illusion. Easy come easy go. That''s all

Phải hỏi tội xếp Di mới được........cứ khư khư giữ cô em gái làm cho sư phụ tui phải đến nỗi anti-love thế ko biết.
Khi yêu có người muốn cho (100%),có người muốn nhận (100%), hay vừa nhận vừa cho (cho a%,nhận 100-a%). Muốn cho 100% hay nhận 100% là 2 loại người thái cực khác nhau, đa phần là lửng lửng.
Cho 100%= chắc chỉ có God (uncon***ional love) I love you because you are you. Nhận 100%=God bless you (good luck to you if you have that bf/gf) I love you because you give me 100%. Số lửng lửng thì I love you if... (con***ional love)
Số người may mắn có uncon***ional love rất ít. Cho nên cũng ko nên buồn-chán-giận đời nếu ta ko đủ may mắn. Phải chấp nhận với thực tế: I love you if...(you are rich or your parent are rich, have well-paid jobs, high income, nice house, expensive car, good looking,good personality...)