SHOULD VIETNAMESE STUDENTS HAVE ***UAL RELATIONSHIP BEFORE MARRIAGE?

mấy hôm nay thấy bà con buồn quá, đưa chủ đề này lên cho bà con bàn tán cho vui vẻ. Trước tiên, tui có câu hỏi này ?

HOW IMPORTANT THE VIRGINITY WAS ?

When I have raised this question to my Vietnamese friends, many people have laughed me: ?o This is modern time, and ***ual relationship is a personal matter, and we should have freedom to do whatever we want. Moreover, why do the couples not try staying with each other before seriously getting married? Can you accept a wife who does not know how to make love?? . In my opinion, I don?Tt agree with that because it has some bad influences such as being against the culture, deficiency in studying, and harm to the health.

They are right, to some extent. Marriage is an important step of life; thus, they need to take everything, including ***, into consideration. However, to have ***ual relationship freely and carelessly, as several students usually do here is something inconsiderate. Vietnamese, like other Asian countries, value the virginity of women. Virginity symbolizes the virtue and merit of women in most eastern societies. Staying virgin till the day of marriage is the most meaningful gift that a wife can give to her husband, the proof of pure love and devotion. Western societies recently have realized this truth, and there is now tendency to oblige this very simple truth. Eastern men, needless to say, mostly would go for virgin wives. They feel confident and happy when getting married with innocent girls, and feel damaged and uncomfortable if their wives have lost their virginity. And if their families know that the wife has lost her virginity, they will even be more depressed and ashamed. In ad***ion, having ***ual relationship before marriage is against cultural value as well as social ethics.

Let's continue and discuss more about that...

You Tây quá
We still Asean - The Vietnamese - with serious tra***ion and habit
let bygones be bygones
June

In English, people often use COHABITATION instead of "try staying with each other before seriously getting married"
NGUDABI
NO MAN, NO CONCERN

Could you ask any Vietnamese girl this question :
" Have you lost your virginity?"
LOL ...

And if the band you're in starts playing different tunes,
I'll see you on the Darkside of the Moon...

Ya right, June. He Tây quá.
Làm sao mà bàn tán về vấn đề này mà lại vui vẻ được chứ. Tây quá, Tây quá..
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Why shouldn't we , Vietnamese try this ? It's good !
England and the World cup 2002 !

It depends on you. If you think it's ok, then it'll be ok.
You didn't known what burns within your soul

Yeah, I think this topic is ok. Because this is a normal thing that u can discuss with others. That's not Tay qua...

well, that'll be fine, not the serious problem
Nothing can stop me when I'm with you

how is "tay qua " . This is just the normal problem, just want to let everyone understand that situation....
Continue....
Virginity is not only required for the wife, but is also expected of the husband. Several of my Indian friends are proud of the fact that they have not had *** with any girls: â?o It is not at all a shame. I want my wife to trust me and respect me, and the foundation for that is the fact that I have saved my virginity for her through yearsâ?? . I totally agree with this. Virginity is almost like the essence of love, the foundation of trust between men and women. For this reason, premarriage ***ual relationship should not be permitted when we students study abroad.
Besides the cultural aspect, ***ual relationship would also seriously effect their study. When a couple has ***ual relationship with each other, it is easier for them to get into the depraved. Since ***ual relationship offers them wonderful feeling, they will forget the major goal, studying. Moreover, itâ?Ts very difficult for students to control themselves to be moderate in ***. Because they are in their youth, the time that their hormones are flooding in their blood, ***ual relationship will control them easily to forget their study; or it will take most of their time, which results in a loss of strength to endure exam periods. As a result, their studying efficiency will diminish considerably.
Last, but not least is the effect of ***ual relationship on health. Most female students do not want to be pregnant when having premarriage ***ual relationship with their partner. Although there are a lot of anti-pregnant medicine such as morning-after pill, condom, and pessary-a device worn in the vagina *****pport the uterus or as a contraceptive - the medicine still has bad influence on the health of female students. For example, the medicine may cause secondary symptoms such as headache, weight loss or gain, and disorder period. They can not be completely safe by using these medicines. This means that they can be pregnant even though they use the medicines. And when something unhappy happens, female students will find every way to have abortion. Furthermore, the medicine can not protect them from ***ually transmitted diseases such as venereal diseases and AIDS, which is also a public concern. This is very harmful to their health, so it is unnecessary for them to have premarriage ***ual relationship.
Moreover, they are only students. They have to live dependently on their family financial sources, not on their own. They are still studying, not working, so they have not enough money to spend on many kind of fees in life. Most of fees such as tuition fees, housing fees, and meals are supported by their family. Furthermore, they have not been immature yet. Their thinking is not developed completely. They have not enough knowledge, abilities, and energy to control their personal desires. They also have not experience and power to bear the consequences.
In brief, I strongly believe that ***ual relationship should be restricted, at least to Vietnamese students who come from such a typical Asian culture where virginity is valued, who are serious in their studies, and who want to stay a healthy life. Love without ***ual relationship may sound weird to many Westerners, but to us, who have been raised up in this culture, it is a great honor, a right and responsibility as well.
hope we will be interested in this topic and try to participate in.