Venting off

This topic should be in TBTY or TS, but I figure I would post it here.
I just came back from my ex-gf home. Give back her some of the clothes that I forgot to pick out when we did the laundry together. We have been separated for one month, which means I have kept those clothes for a few months at least.

She seems so cold and distance now. Or is it just me? We have been together for 2 years, sometimes I thought that I could understand her, but now it turns out that I dont understand her at all. What went wrong? Everything went wrong. Maybe saying the L word after three months is too fast. Maybe coming on to a girl when she is alone and away from home is not a good idea, since in those vulnerable moments, she might misunderstood appreciation to love.

I am trying very hard to forget her now. Is it a good idea? We said that we would be friends, but I dont think I can do that. Seeing her reminds me of so many memories we had together, and that hurts me.

I know that I would always be there for her, anytime she needs a hand, but I will not be able to see her as a friend, at least not yet.

from what it seemed to appear, one can c^m 2 the conclusn that while u have no ability to change lover the way u do with ur clothes, ur x-gf do have such admirable one,,,, Am i interpreting ur story the rite way?
emi&em

I am so sorry for u, not just bcz of ur sad story but also of the fact that no one has replied to ur topic b4 me. First I have to tell u that I have no real life experience in this field but I can still be sympathic. From my point, u should keep friendship if u can and she wants to, bcz it is less shocking than being strangers at once. I know break-up is not easy but it is not too hard to recover from. So I hope time can heal ur wound and love (another love) will do the rest...

Help me if you can Im feeling down and I do appreciate your being round, help me put my feet back on the ground, would u plz...

oopssss,,,,,,the same all stupid mistke ( like "She seems so cold and distance now"-----distance => a noun) of mine : "ur x-gf do have" should b " ur x-gf does have"------- rite ???
emi&em

hey Mousetrap,,,,,,we seemed to hav had the same aim replyin' thiz topik,,,,,,,,i know for sure how one feelz when none carez 2 pay attention to wot he did say with his heart equally hot like the weather in a no-elektrikcity-HN yesterday.....
emi&em

heh, actually, I dont expect anyone to reply to this topic, since its just me venting, but thanks for the encouragement anyway
Besides, I feel that its easier to express my feeling in English than in Vietnamese.

Posted by Damark
I see hope again. You have lied to me, but I was happy that you lied to me. You said you didnt love me, but you did. And that is enough for me. I know that for the time being, we wont be able to get back together yet. I know that I need to be more mature, so that you can rely on me. But as long as there is hope, I will be able to do it.
It's so easy to call it quit and find another girl, but that goes against everything that I pride myself upon. I won't give up on our relationship, and I hope that neither will you.
I love you. I never knew how much I love you until we are apart. We had fights, and there were times when we didnt see each other, but nothing hurts me more than the feeling that you wont be there besides me.
As we go on, we remember all the times we had together
As our lives change, come whatever
We will still be FRIENDS FOREVER