Vietnamese women 's identity

Một cái quality là 1 ice cream nhe em,hông phải cứ nói liều ra đại là được đâu.
Những phẩm chất đó của người phụ nữ VN em liệt kê ra có phải là phổ biến trong đa số phụ nữ ko? (bao nhiêu phụ nữ VN là nông dân,thất học, do you ever think?) Những phẩm chất đó có phải là người phụ nữ TQ,người Nhật hay Triều Tiên ko có và chỉ có người phụ nữ VN mới có hay ko? Bởi lẽ khi nói đến bản sắc tức là cái duy nhất, cái để giúp người ta xác lập vị trí của phụ nữ VN giúp họ không thể lầm lẫn với người phụ nữ nước khác.
So pls think carefully before you say.

Có 1 phẩm chất mà chả người đàn ông nào dám qua mặt và đòi tranh giành với phụ nữ: Mang bầu sinh con. Bởi đàn ông chỉ gieo giống là giỏi, có đẻ đâu mà biết đau.
Suy ra, phụ nữ chịu đau giỏi hơn đàn ông.

Vietnamese women are not only females who can give birth in this planet. Women in other countries are able to give birth as well. It is not Vietnamese women identity.
So far tt seems to me that both Ms. Cool and FJX do not understand the meaning of identity ( as I do). Let me rectify the name as our accestors used to say '' rectified names facilitate smooth talks'' (danh chính ngôn thuận)
Vietnamese identity are qualities which can be used to identify, distinguish Vietnamese people from other races/countries people. In other words, those are qualities which other races/countries people do not have.
Identity, in some senses, are good qualities which Vietnamese are proud of being their owners. Or you may conceive identity as bad qualities which hoever could be used to identify/ distinguish Vietnamese people from others as well. Do I make it clear?
P.s. I am agressive and will be very agressive in such serious issues as Vietnamese identity.

Good question, ông Gà
I am thinking about the ability of long-suffering of Vietnamese women. In a marriage, the wife should be the one has ability of long - suffering to keep the marriage lasting. In case of facing problems (financial hardships, relations'' problems ...) and the wife does not have ability *****ffer, marriage is easily led to divorce. I believe Vietnamese women are better at this point than other races.
(ok, use this point to compete with you first)

[sigh] I really don''t like these kinds of discussion coz it a bit unrespects Vietnamese woman. I was trying to talk about it as less as possible and nearly closed this topic, then I made a joke, didn''t mean I don''t understand what you wanna mention to. As many similar topics were opened in TTVNOL (men and women, Vietnamese and foreigners, Saigon and Hanoi,...), then the results were always negative. So what makes sense on this topic? Dont tell us that you want Vietnamese ladies to recognise their characters and change some bad points, you are so funny!
Nowadays, saying that somebody has got a good or bad identity doesn''t mean because she/he belongs to a certain country like Vietnam, China, USA,... . I hate to base on the tra***ional value to conclusion on something or someone.
Aggressive or not, it''s up to you, and I hate to tell you this but it''s my duty: If this topic is negatively going on, I will delete it.

SEC male đâu hết trơn rùi trời,để tui 1 mình chống mafia .
Miss, for the point you gave out I surrender. No need to attack and defend any more. One ice cream for you.
Vietnamese women are ''chịu thương,chịu khó'' as in folksongs say:
Chồng em áo rách em thương
Chồng người áo gấm áo hoa mặc người
(chắc nhớ bậy,đọc hổng thấy vần khỉ gì hết nhưng đại loại ý như vậy)
Or: con cò mà đi ăn đêm
Đậu phải cành mềm lộn cổ xuống áo...
Or: Quanh năm buôn bán ở mom sông
Nuôi đủ 5 con với 1 chồng
(Tú Xương, Thương vợ)
However, I am very doubtful that that quality still exist firmly in Vietnamese women. This age is just same as the age when Vũ Trọng Phụng wrote '' kĩ nghệ lấy Tây'' or Hồ Biểu Chánh wrote ''bỏ chồng'', ''bỏ vợ.'' It is the age of money mind,materialism. Anyway, one ice cream for you, Miss. The game has not started yet, we need judges and rules for this game. However, if at the end of the day you get no ice cream (the game dies before it starts), just look for me. I am happy to treat you an ice cream.

Calm down Ms. FJX. I respect mods and rules here anyway. If you do not feel happy and want to delete it, it is fine.
For those who are interested to follow up this topic, just let me know. We will find some other places to carry on.
Cheers.

This might be a very interesting topic to discuss and think about unless ong Ga is too pessimistic and extreme about VNmese women. Otherwise, SEC ladies will get angry although your topic is worth discussing. So, please be careful.
Thanks for offering me an ice-cream. . However, before continuing my next points, could you please tell me about Japanese, Korean, French, Malaysian....women identities? It''s really not a simple task , right? And how can you name some Vietnamese men identities? If possible, please open another discussion about this.

Thank you for your advices Miss. In discussion about Vietnamese idenity, I feel a little bit guilty. Am I naking Vietnamese people that they have no identity or very poor identify ? So what if that is the case? 4000 years of rich cultural heritage just worths that much? So what again? Persistent questioning and pondering in the issue is to find out the truth. Discussion in Socrate ''s attitute to find out the truth and forget about Sophists who just agrue with the sage of arguement rather than the love of the truth. Do not feel scare of being naked. Do not afraid of hurting or being hurted.
(busy to work,sorry guys)

ùh, bậy rùi anh
Chồng em áo rách em thương
Chồng người áo gấm xông hương mặc người