What do you hate most in a man?

What should I say about ? I hate a lot of things about manõ?Ts characteristics. Now, let me think it over for a while and õ?Ư..select õ?Ư.

Yeah, hereõ?Ư.flirtatious, this is one of the basic characteristics of men. When heõ?Ts bachelor , he tends to have as many girlfriends as possible. Although he loves his girlfriend, he never misses any opportunity of meeting other beautiful girls. He wants to discover girlõ?Ts mystery and wants to collect more understandings , doesnõ?Tt he ? He usually pleads this proves his powers. And when he gets married, heõ?Ts fond of having lovers often called õ?o small wives õ?o . Itõ?Ts so unbelievable and unacceptable !

A young boy nowadays falls in love fast and gets out of love fast also. Itõ?Ts so difficult to find out reasons. Last month , a friend of mine told me that he deeply love a girl . However, two days ago, he confided that he bored of her , he likes another lovely girl heõ?Ts trying his best to make her love him . I can not sympathize him though Iõ?Tm his close friend.

Moreover, men is liars . The result from a newest research shows that a man lies 75% more than a woman . Telling lie is manõ?Ts habit and he usually does that to hide something.

There are a lot of other terrible facets about men needed to expose. Hey, continue, ladiesõ?Ư.!





Dirosemimi

Aha, interesting topic for a nice debate!!
I've been reading newspapers and watching shows claiming that women are really lousy at reading maps and driving. If someone asks me to give a empirical evidence to prove this assumption, I would definitely turn to my real-life sources : my lovely female friend. Whenever I am behind the wheel and scratching my head wondering where is the direction we should be headed for, the dependence on the map reading skill of my friend would lead us to another foreign place.
Yet, when i sit down across from another female classmate to crack a financial homework assignment, I am amazed about her ability to figure out solutions for heavy stuffs like Net Present Value or stock buyback. ( and yes newpapers've been telling me that women are no good at math)

Men are disgusting because they lie like they drink beer? Yes, many women-favored studies showed that men always bragged about things to self-promote themselves ,particularly when they had partners.On the contrary, the non-partisan media declared that the number of lies men and women are just about the same, though the lies differ in content. Yet, all these one-sided and non-sided studies did not explicitly say that the whole bunch of males are liars and thumbed all the way down. I had a steamy conversation with a lady about roles of men and women in society. All of the sudden, she gave a statement matter-of-factly " I hate men as all of them are a bunch of deceivers". I was stunned for a moment after this statement and then I was like "yeah? then why are you so crazy about men ha ha" .
Women have not not lied a bit in their lives? These studyies might be correct about men lying through their teeth more than women, but when a woman is seriously about deception, the whole world should better watch out ! Don't be fooled by a fragile body, a stunning innocent smile! When a woman is so engrossed in her actions of delusive words, damages could go beyond imagination
OUr world gave us a Mother Teresa, a Madona, a Britney SPears, a Monica Lewinski,a Marie Curie and it also produced a Kenedy, a Elvis Presley, a Ricky Martin, a Bill Clinton, a Edison and so on so forth so that they could equalize one another to some degree. Did those people lie before? You betcha! So tomorrow when you wake up and it's raining outside don't let this kind of thought wandering on your mind " my boy friend just dumped me and all the guys out there are frigging liars "
My two cents in a "Girls rule" thread

It's not wealth one asks for, but just enough to preserve one's dignity, to work unhampered,to be generous, to be independent

It is a interesting topic which make man better.Thanks for all contributions.
One of charateristics of men is flirtatious?Some examples were taken to prove it....."A young boy nowadays falls in love fast and gets out of love fast also. "?What love?
Moreover,men are liars?"White lies" should have somewhere to apply( i think a phrase have its own reasons to exist)....I remember that i heard somethings thing like that:
Em bảo anh đi sao anh không đứng lại,
Em bảo anh đừng chờ sao anh vội về ngay....
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Sao mà anh ngốc thế...


Tao_lao

Hi Dirosemimi ,
Ouch, it hurts ! Don't you think it's a bit unfair in stereotyping all "men" with your topic . Not all men are bad . Same goes for all women . Remember a VNese saying about not all fingers (in a hand) are equal, in term of height .
There are many men that have their heart broken because their female companion were flirtatious . There are also women who love to collect boyfriends' broken heart . Hehehe ! I hate to discuss, to explain something as romantic as LOVE with scientific facts . Male are, by nature, trying to spread their genes as fast and as much as possible during their lifetime . We are born with that "mission" . The only thing that stops men from acting out their instinct is their conscience which are fed in by society, by their parents in what we called : moral standards . They were taught to commit to only one ***ual partner , i.e. one wife . No hanky panky . Well, that is hard since that is against what they are programmed to do ... That's why a lot of men, with their wife or girlfriend by their side , still let their eyes wandering around , especially when other cutty females are around . We can't help it ! Don't blame us, blame God instead . Hehehe
You might wonder why men are attracted to "beautiful" girls ... Because pretty female will, in high probability , produce beautiful offspring . Pure and simple . Again we are just acting out the mission that nature has reserved for us . So ladies, we are not "bad" . We are doing what we are supposed to do : spread our gene to keep our human race from extinction . Isn't that a noble cause ? .
But rest assure, ladies, we, men of this forum , are not flirtatious . We keep our heart in check . We only commit and love just ONE female partner . If you don't believe me, just try to woo one of us and you will find out !
Have mercy, ladies . By the way do you have an explanation for flirtatious women ? And don't tell me that there aren't flirtatious women .
Được tdhung sửa chữa vào 18/06/2002 11:12
Được tdhung sửa chữa vào 18/06/2002 11:56
Được tdhung sửa chữa vào 18/06/2002 23:00

Được tdhung sửa chữa vào 18/06/2002 11:58

hi dirosemimi !
I'm not a girl, but when hearing your story, I really want to anticipate this room to dicuss and protect for "men".
I deeply understand your emotional when telling bad about man like that. May be you just think about 1 object and then devise the rest of them be like that. Otherwise, I wonder if your heart was stirred with somebody unhonesty, you feel hurt and always have bad opinions about man.
Yes, flirtatious is one of the basic characteristics of men. If man does not follow or flirt girl, do you think girl can do that with man.
The answer is "no" because girl is "weak gender", they are afraid of express their emotion in front of men, especially the one they love, they will feel shy when telling love with men.
So what's happen if men do not flirt "girl" ?
we will not have "love" because noone want to be "active". Everyone just want to sit down and wait for succesful.
Your story is quite true, but still in some case, not all of men have to be like that.
Let's observe and comment about men again, you will feel regret because love will come to you in some days.
Good luck for you love.....

I absolutely agree with Di. Men are flirtatious and greedy, especially in love. I don't mean all men, but most of them. I think they have never felt enough, even they have girl friend they're still looking for some one new and name them as "best friend". I'm sorry to those people who having a innocent relationship, but it's true. My friend's boy friend is one of those guys. He was her best friend before they become a couple, and now he has 2-3 some kind of that best friend. I do believe in the friendship between male and female, but i don't think it's easy to find too many closed friends like that.
To TDHung: "I hate to discuss, to explain something as romantic as LOVE with scientific facts" too, but i don't think "spread our gene to keep our human race from extinction" is a good reason to defend men's flirting habit. Can you guys keep our human race from extinction without women? If not, then women are born with that mission, too So, why men let their eyes wander around too much? What do you feel if your girlfriend stare at other men when she is next to you?
To Fini: I don't think girl expects her man flirting around to get her. When they love someone, they'll give their men signs to go. I don't think that reaction from men can be call "flirt", except he already has girl friend (it's really bad situation, isn't it?). In ad***ion, are you sure girl is "weak gender" now?
Cheers,

Hi p2p,
I'm sure that my buddy's saying that men's mission was to "spread their genes" is a humorous comment as to mitigate the possible intensity in the coming replies.It would be an endless debate if one person argues with another about which ones appeared first : chickens or eggs. Obviously, statements like " men are flirtatious (i don't understand why this is considered a bad characteristics of men) and deceptive" are based on personal point of view and with insufficient supported sources.Therefore, it is irrelevant if you accuse your friend's boyfriend of being a lady's man. While it might be true that that guy is a lady's man himself, there had possibly been other reasons that caused their relationship to fall apart. Have you been aware of these hidden reasons or you just simply " judge a book by its cover"?
With regards to your comment on the word " flirt", i do not think that you fully understand the meaning of it in English context. A flirtatious person is not deemed a bad person as flirtation is an inherent trait of human beings. Everyone's flirted in their lives to some degree.As opposed to your thinking, girls do flirt! and a lot! And they do enjoyed being flirted by men! I've never seen a girl who does not feel embraced when men are attentive to her look or character. What differs here is the way men and women flirt. Men are more aggressive in their flirting by nature while women tend to implicitly show their emotions toward the opposite ***. As a matter of fact, when a female gives signals (as you pointed out) to a male, she is flirting in her own way
Another 2 cents

It's not wealth one asks for, but just enough to preserve one's dignity, to work unhampered,to be generous, to be independent

Được johntrung sửa chữa / chuyển vào 20/06/2002 ngày 01:40
Được dirosemimi sửa chữa / chuyển vào 20/06/2002 ngày 19:56

Thanks, Trung . I don't think p2p missed that touch of humor in my posting . Proof :She did have that smiley face on her response . She is another member that I admire for a thorough proficient in English . How did you guys and gals get to be that good ? Amazing .
P2P : Along that humorous line about "keeping the human race from extinction" , I can say that men have the bragging right . Sure , we do need women's partnership but we can sow at a tune of few hundred offspring per male , per lifetime . Can women match that ?
Hehehe ! Just teasing , P2P ! We, men, can't live without you , women . Or as other men say that we can't live with them and we can't live without them .

Hi dirosemini,
Whatever you say about men, you can never deny the fact that a woman must love a man. Women are made for men, and vice versa. Don't ask why men are like this, women are like that. After all, there's nothing we can do to change it because we were born with it, we were born with what made us male and female. Bad things and good things always exist in every object in this universe. Try turning the other side of the coin. Hey, I know you just post this topic to liven up the atmosphere here with no bad wills to attack us men, otherwise, I'll have a lot to talk with you then, he he .
Well, finally, thanks for your warm welcome. Just worried I have too little time to wander arround here much. Thanks anyway.
Hiepkhach
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