What is love? Love is ........

Words are just like water, they come and they go away. So is love.
Both are fragile, and should not be trusted.
I was stupid to fall in love. I was stupid to trust in words and put hope into love again.
Maybe the best thing to do nowadays is to stay calculated in everything and hide your heart away.
five centimeters away from the rim

Sorry Dam, are u sure that your love is a true one?

This is a very interesting question that I have no answer. In fact, this is the question that I have been trying to avoid..
My answer is, I have no idea. If you asked me this question about 1 year ago, I would have said yes without hesitation. But everything has changed now, I guess a person's likes and dislikes could be changing also.
One good thing about failing the second time is that you dont feel sad anymore. In fact, you dont feel anything at all. Its kinda all emptied out.
five centimeters away from the rim

A good answer. So, do you fell sorry?? (may be no)

You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her

Before you can say anything abt true love, define it first. If u are the one who is falling in love, u surely think ur love is a true love but...how about after 1 year, 5 years or 10 years? Will u marry the girl or guy you are attached now? And even after u can marry her or /him, will you still believe that ur love is a true love or it just used to be? I used to believe that I had a really true love but now I know that it is not. However I still belive that there is true love but only time can tell it
It is not how hard you work but how much you get done

hic hic, I have no experience ab that, but I think true love is true love. It's the right question. May be the only. Don't try to find out another answer.

You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her

Very interesting question here. Do I feel sorry? According to the text book answers, I am supposed to say: "no, I dont feel sorrry. What done is done, but we had sweet times together, and I will treasure the memories of my first love, etc.. etc..."
Yup, part of me will answer as stated above. However, there is a little green man inside me that speak with a squeaky voice: "Damark, you are feeling sorry for yourself. You have lost your love and you have lost faith in love also. And all those sweet memories, it was sweet when you two were still together. But now when you are apart, all those memories can only cause you pain and regret. So burry it deeps and try not to think about it anymore."
Is that a correct answer?
five centimeters away from the rim

Does that mean you'll never love anyone?
According to what you said, you had a great time when you fell in love. Why you said you were too stupid to fall in love? You're the one who encourage me to love --> you want me to be stupid , is that so????
I think you said this just because you're so disappointed. But does your first love give you some experiece. Don't tell me that the experiece the first love gave you is not to love with all your heart again.
Why will you love another girl that accepts your personality and never compares you to another person? Sorry but I don't feel your first love is true according to what you said of course
Try again, if you fail again, try one more, try until you find your true love.

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It will, of course, cause you great pain, you can hide it deep down inside... but try not to regret for it. It's really hard to express what I'm feeling but you know, if I were you, I'd keep those experiences as sweet memories and never would I try to erase it in my head.

No, I don't think so. When you fail for the second time, you still feel extremely heart-broken, yet it's much easier to get over the pain than the first time. I don't know whether I still have faith in something when I lose it for the second time .... well.... I'm on the way to lose it....huhu.. for the second time....
As we go on, we remember all the times we had together
As our lives change, come whatever
We will still be FRIENDS FOREVER

My answer for the question "What is true love?" :
True love lasts.
When we are involved with someone, it's hard to tell if it's true love or just infatuation.
Only time can tell. If you are still together through good and bad times. If you always have faith in your love no matter what. If you see fights as a means towards better understanding. That's when you truly love.