what should u do when u are in trouble ?

U MAY HAVE A LOT OF EXPERIENCES IN YOUR LIFE .
THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICES , I FEEL BETTER .

hi, everyone!
Iam also in bad mood like most of you. Actually , iam so confidential and self-motivated about my own . I like to work and study, they are my big ambition for long life time. I dun''t think or care about the love or such kind of things - socalled "nonse things". But what i didn''t believe happened to me. I fell down , i got troubles from what i intended to be OKay..Oh my god, i was always sure about myself, i know exactly what i should be, what i want to be, what i'' ve been in.. But everything was collapsed. I concentrate to work , any work says No to me, and I find studies, studies run away me. And i seek me, myself couldn''t help. Eventually iam a loser. Chances come to me and go , maybe i let''s it go or God do...!! But in fact i failed. I failed in such things i believed I were well in...And now i feeling about myself, about what i ''ve done, about my fate, my career , my study ... and i feel bad.
Why ??and why?? i don''t know the reason cause.. iam always confident in the way iam used to be.. I don''t believe in me ? i don''t believe in anything surrounding me?? NO..but why i fail time to time....God plays trick on me or enhances me... i don''t know..
But one thing i know for sure, who can help me...?? Only mysefl
can do it well. I must try , must renew my confidence...and over take my self-doubting...
Hope it could be...!
And hope with me too...!
BB
Another week is coming...!

i think it''s a very difficult question.I''ve been in ur situation and now i''m a loser.I''ve lost my love just because i can''t balane my study,my life and my love.Now,i still don''t know how to balance this

REALLY, U LOST ALREADY ?? AND IAM GOING TO LOSE.
I STILL CAN NOT TELL MYSELF HOW TO BALANCE THIS...

1. Everyone has 4 basic needs in life and if he can''t fulfil those 4 basic needs, his quality of life will reduce. The four important factors are: to stay healthy, to love and to be loved, to learn and to gain knowledge, and to live in a meaningful way.
How to balance those four things? They say that to live meaningful life or spiritual need is the fire within them, is the key motivation for the 3 others. It is to contribute to society and to leave a legacy.
So now start with it. Try to do other people favor to see yourself meaningful and ...love yourself.
2. In a short story of Leo Tolstoy, he said that: The best time to do a thing is NOW; The best person to work with is the person in the present BEHIND you; The most important thing to do at all times is to make that person HAPPY.
I do perceive all those things but I can''t do well, hơ hơ.
So, try it and see if it works ???
Lucky Luck 2 u!!!

May all have the same problems when we are living in such a complex social .
As i know u have a lot of experinces in the life and other fields .
Thanks to your some peace of advices , i learnt from u a lot of knowledges that i never know about . I feel more confident to live better . I am not afraid of being in trouble anylonger .
I try to find the way because i only can help myself . Sometimes we got fail , but don''t be disappointed .
Don''t worry , be happy all members !